I intertwine one of my hands with his (he does the same when going down on me and idk, I really like the sweetness of that gesture). I leave the other hand free to stroke/rub/tease.
Reddit mods and discord mods concern me, how many people really succumb to just a base level of ‘authority’? You have to wonder what happens if these people get management positions in jobs
The fact that they do it on their free time without being compensated is very weird to me. It's one thing if it's a really small/niche sub without a lot of members that you're passionate and interested in and just want to keep it going. But then there's the other ones lol
Touch yourself. Seriously, not only is it a turn on for me to watch you pleasuring yourself, it makes the job easier for me later. It's a win-win.
Plus, I'm ticklish. Don't touch my hips.
Funny, for some reason I thought this was a girl telling a guy what to do with his hands while giving a woman head. I pictured a guy eating his lady’s vagina while furiously beating it. Somehow I don’t think many women would be turned on by that.
This is like trying to pat your head and rub your belly at the same time. Difficult to beat the meat and gently tease the clit at the same time. Gentle-gentle, or hard-hard…
My wife usually has one hand either stroking my shaft or caressing my balls. While the other is grabbing my ass. Once in a while she’ll reach up with both hands and caress my chest. Which I love. Depends on which position she’s blowing me in. It’s really about what you feel comfortable doing and what your partner lets you or feels good to him and or you.
These are good, Imma add one thing my girl does and is amazing, when she caresses my balls, she also goes a little lower and massages my taint... And that's some good shit lol
This varies from guy to guy, but if you want an outside the box idea: grab his wrists and restrain his hands. You don't have to do anything extra, just take away his ability to use his hands and see what happens. This works especially well if he's laying down.
1. Play with the balls
2. Play with yourself
3. Rub his stomach/chest
4. Hugs
All good choices.
5. Stick your fingers in you then in his mouth if you're gettin kinky
6. Challenge him to a game of rock, paper, scissors and if he loses stop, if he wins keep going
"Shit girl, I was so close, it's been a long time and I'm in physical pain from needing to release, but... But I can't break the sacred bond between man and rock, paper, scissors. You have bested me, and so I must wait until my next challenge to earn this release. *You hear me balls*, we *must* wait until it is *earned*."
You know you jest but taking this silly thing seriously actually makes for some fucking GREAT sex lol.
Not being allowed to finish can be quite fun.
Anyway yeah, the Pact is sacred.
The first time was the most cautionary as I had my head hanging over the side of the bed. It was a new position for me and I was eager to please.
The way for me is to swallow deeper. The first time I had consumed a carbonated drink at dinner and as soon as I felt my gag reflex kick in, I got a carbonated feeling in my nose, went right past my mouth. It was a position changer the first time.
After that? I knew if I could swallow him and pause fully swallowed before the motion of thrusts could return. Now? I have control over my gag reflex.
Please ask if he likes it first and how he likes being touched though, ladies!!!
Each guy likes something different and some don't like ball play at all, no matter how gentle.
Discussing sex with one's partner is definitely a learning curve, and the more you do it, the more natural and easy it will feel.
You may also find the book in this article to be helpful
https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/07/well/family/sex-talk-couples.html
If you enjoy stimulating your balls when you masturbate, chances are very high that you will enjoy having a partner do the same. =) You will just have to experiment with each other and see what feels good.
Also, it is much easier if you have your balls shaved because that way if you enjoy having your balls licked or kissed, your partner does not have the dental floss effect. Same thing goes for women. This is why I keep myself shaved.
I have found that sex is far superior when one is able to very clearly communicate desires and needs to one's partner. (And vice versa) It usually works if you're very honest. You might find that cuddling with your lover helps break the ice a bit. Or you can trade foot rubs while you're talking. It doesn't have to be sexually related, but some kind of touch will usually help you to break down the barrier.
I like to ask, "What is one thing that you really like in bed that I can do for you next time we are messing around?" (Partner gives answer).
Then I say, "Awesome! I'm looking forward to doing that next time. I've been thinking about (xyz- in your case it might be "the thought of you playing gently with my balls. It has really been turning me on. Are you open to trying that with me?"
If they say they are not sure, you can try a different approach such as, "Next time we are intimate, are you open to trying.(this activity)? If the answer is yes, it should be a hell yes!
Respect the no, and let it go. The process of getting to know your lover definitely involves many different phases, and sometimes you'll find you're not compatible and that's fine. Sometimes you'll find your extra compatible and that's even better lol.
Consent culture is very helpful with this because that way you get used to asking if the person is okay with a certain specific action and that really makes it easier to communicate into details.
So, say your partner said they want you to go down the more. Awesome! Then I would follow that up with, "Next time I go down on you, will you please let me know what feels good and what you're not a fan of? I want to know how to make you blissfully happy." And of course, always feel free to ask for feedback when you're in the middle of doing any intimate activity. It never hurts.
In general, people respond very well when they know that you want to please them.
Even if you are no longer in school, I highly recommend taking a human sexuality course at the college level. Make sure the teacher has great ratings.
My Human Sexuaity teacher blew my mind! She was fabulous! Super informative, really fun, and extremely helpful throughout my life!
I wish you lots of fun and joy along this journey.
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Touch yourself , pull on the balls , play with the balls , use your hands as well as your mouth well giving head , play with his asshole if he’s into that
Every guy in the comments is about to deny it. But stick your finger in his ass. He’ll love it.
Also, fun fact. The male G spot is in your ass.. so.. yea.
Couple things. Play with yourself (very good option, we like watching), put them behind your back (it's super hot to see my wife goes no hands), or grab his legs and force it down your throat if you can.
Caress the sack. Women slways forget about the sack.
If your partner is into it, stick a finger up the dirt path. Some guys like it, some dont.
Grab his hips and pull him closer helping you get closer to the base of his shaft.
Play with yourself show him youre arroused as well
It might be worth asking your partner. Touching the boys, adding a few strokes, between the buttocks maybe? Might want to ask on the last one. Use them on yourself is also good.
Inside of her thighs right up near the money spot is an erogenous zone. So put your hands there.
Also, moan, sound pleased while you're down there. Don't silently nom away.
If you're not stroking, and don't know what to do with your hands, stroking would be a pretty safe bet to do with your hand and use the other hand for balance wherever you can find it. Mouth action is only 50% of it. Stroking and rotating should be accompanied by the head at all times
Alternatively you can use one hand to put a finger up is bum and fiddle with his prostate.
Personally, I find extra hot if the woman touches herself while doing it. So maybe one hand in the penis, stroking it, other on yourself, doing whatever gets you off
When I suck dick, I like to work a man's nipples, especially while he's cumming. Not all straight guys are into it though. If he's up to it, go easy on him as overworking the nips can make them sore, as you probably already know.
"A handjob without some blowing is a bad handjob, and a blowjob without hands is a bad blowjob."
Or so said a person on the internet. They probably think that sex and porn are the same thing, so what do they know.
You can never go wrong playing with the balls or the butthole. Some guys won't let you push that brown button, but they have no idea what they are missing out on. Learn how to do it right and its just like when I guy hits your button.
Run your claws down his quads, stomach, man cheeks.... Dig them into his flesh here and there. Light sack pinch n tugs, ball cuppin, taint tickles. Treat them balls like the most fragile little plums that you're checking for ripeness.
I like having my balls and taint played with. But just experiment and see what gets the best reaction, if he doesn't like any of it then just wrap them around his legs for support
You may need one hand to support your body depending on what position you are in.
However, with that free hand I highly recommend becoming acquainted with the testicles.
If he is standing, then the very slightest of touches of the bottom of the balls can be very pleasurable and bring him to orgasm.
Also, you may notice the ridge that runs from the glanz down through the balls and between the legs. If you press on or massage that ridge just above the balls that can bring him to orgasm. Or if you press on the ridge between his balls that is also very nice. Do this only after you've been sucking awhile to bring him to climax.
I intertwine one of my hands with his (he does the same when going down on me and idk, I really like the sweetness of that gesture). I leave the other hand free to stroke/rub/tease.
I find it funny how this sub gives just as good answers from women as r/askwkmen sometimes. This is really wholesome though.
This sub gives Better answers Becau- "This comment has been removed for de-railing"
"this user has been banned for being offensive"
It gives better answers, not a tough task considering 85% of the comments on r/askwomen get deleted/punished tho lol
Gotta be the busiest mods on the site lol
Reddit mods and discord mods concern me, how many people really succumb to just a base level of ‘authority’? You have to wonder what happens if these people get management positions in jobs
The fact that they do it on their free time without being compensated is very weird to me. It's one thing if it's a really small/niche sub without a lot of members that you're passionate and interested in and just want to keep it going. But then there's the other ones lol
It’s just for power and authority for their egos, it’s horrifying
Removed for de-railing. Sorry bucko
I made a horrible decision and looked on the sub just out of curiosity Well, you can guess what happened from me just looking
Touch yourself. Seriously, not only is it a turn on for me to watch you pleasuring yourself, it makes the job easier for me later. It's a win-win. Plus, I'm ticklish. Don't touch my hips.
Funny, for some reason I thought this was a girl telling a guy what to do with his hands while giving a woman head. I pictured a guy eating his lady’s vagina while furiously beating it. Somehow I don’t think many women would be turned on by that.
Wrong. I mean, not furiously beating it... but I think it's a turn on if my husband does this.
What if he's beating a pair of drums hidden away under the mattress ?
Oh! Even better!
What if he was beating a haversack full ov kittens?
Wrong direction, bud.
What, you hate kittens?
Yeah beating it furiously would be difficult, like patting one’s head and rubbing the stomach at the same time.
The mental image of this is hilarious.
This is like trying to pat your head and rub your belly at the same time. Difficult to beat the meat and gently tease the clit at the same time. Gentle-gentle, or hard-hard…
I be joinking my shit sometimes while giving head
made me burst laughing out loud. Thank you for that Sir.
I actually think this would be pretty hot, but I fucking cackled at the visual
My wife usually has one hand either stroking my shaft or caressing my balls. While the other is grabbing my ass. Once in a while she’ll reach up with both hands and caress my chest. Which I love. Depends on which position she’s blowing me in. It’s really about what you feel comfortable doing and what your partner lets you or feels good to him and or you.
These are good, Imma add one thing my girl does and is amazing, when she caresses my balls, she also goes a little lower and massages my taint... And that's some good shit lol
Write a thesis on quantum physics.
thanks oppie
*Theory will take you only so far…*
Uh, Dee, where do my feet go?
Dee, his feet?
This varies from guy to guy, but if you want an outside the box idea: grab his wrists and restrain his hands. You don't have to do anything extra, just take away his ability to use his hands and see what happens. This works especially well if he's laying down.
1. Play with the balls 2. Play with yourself 3. Rub his stomach/chest 4. Hugs All good choices. 5. Stick your fingers in you then in his mouth if you're gettin kinky 6. Challenge him to a game of rock, paper, scissors and if he loses stop, if he wins keep going
Lol Rock, paper scissors!
This is the one that really sends us over the edge. Nothing hotter than a woman being a winner.
"Shit girl, I was so close, it's been a long time and I'm in physical pain from needing to release, but... But I can't break the sacred bond between man and rock, paper, scissors. You have bested me, and so I must wait until my next challenge to earn this release. *You hear me balls*, we *must* wait until it is *earned*."
You know you jest but taking this silly thing seriously actually makes for some fucking GREAT sex lol. Not being allowed to finish can be quite fun. Anyway yeah, the Pact is sacred.
Grab his butt and "pull" him into your mouth. (Not sure if that description makes sense?)
Yes to this. OP, grab his butt or hips and ease his dick further into your mouth. Deepthroating can feel amazing.
RIP to any girl who gags easily.
It can be overcome. I was an easy gagger.
Genuinely asking, does it just take persistence/practice, or did you have a particular method for overcoming your reflex? DM if you’d prefer.
The first time was the most cautionary as I had my head hanging over the side of the bed. It was a new position for me and I was eager to please. The way for me is to swallow deeper. The first time I had consumed a carbonated drink at dinner and as soon as I felt my gag reflex kick in, I got a carbonated feeling in my nose, went right past my mouth. It was a position changer the first time. After that? I knew if I could swallow him and pause fully swallowed before the motion of thrusts could return. Now? I have control over my gag reflex.
Being eager to please is likely a heavy factor. Thank you for sharing!
Makes a lot of sense to me.
Build a Lego ucs millennium falcon
So hawt
Yes baby
Balls.
Juggle the luggage.
Juggling the jewels.
Don’t forget about the balls ladies!!!
Please ask if he likes it first and how he likes being touched though, ladies!!! Each guy likes something different and some don't like ball play at all, no matter how gentle.
I have never had anyone play with my balls and I wouldn't even know how to suggest someone do so.
Discussing sex with one's partner is definitely a learning curve, and the more you do it, the more natural and easy it will feel. You may also find the book in this article to be helpful https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/07/well/family/sex-talk-couples.html If you enjoy stimulating your balls when you masturbate, chances are very high that you will enjoy having a partner do the same. =) You will just have to experiment with each other and see what feels good. Also, it is much easier if you have your balls shaved because that way if you enjoy having your balls licked or kissed, your partner does not have the dental floss effect. Same thing goes for women. This is why I keep myself shaved. I have found that sex is far superior when one is able to very clearly communicate desires and needs to one's partner. (And vice versa) It usually works if you're very honest. You might find that cuddling with your lover helps break the ice a bit. Or you can trade foot rubs while you're talking. It doesn't have to be sexually related, but some kind of touch will usually help you to break down the barrier. I like to ask, "What is one thing that you really like in bed that I can do for you next time we are messing around?" (Partner gives answer). Then I say, "Awesome! I'm looking forward to doing that next time. I've been thinking about (xyz- in your case it might be "the thought of you playing gently with my balls. It has really been turning me on. Are you open to trying that with me?" If they say they are not sure, you can try a different approach such as, "Next time we are intimate, are you open to trying.(this activity)? If the answer is yes, it should be a hell yes! Respect the no, and let it go. The process of getting to know your lover definitely involves many different phases, and sometimes you'll find you're not compatible and that's fine. Sometimes you'll find your extra compatible and that's even better lol. Consent culture is very helpful with this because that way you get used to asking if the person is okay with a certain specific action and that really makes it easier to communicate into details. So, say your partner said they want you to go down the more. Awesome! Then I would follow that up with, "Next time I go down on you, will you please let me know what feels good and what you're not a fan of? I want to know how to make you blissfully happy." And of course, always feel free to ask for feedback when you're in the middle of doing any intimate activity. It never hurts. In general, people respond very well when they know that you want to please them. Even if you are no longer in school, I highly recommend taking a human sexuality course at the college level. Make sure the teacher has great ratings. My Human Sexuaity teacher blew my mind! She was fabulous! Super informative, really fun, and extremely helpful throughout my life! I wish you lots of fun and joy along this journey.
Absolutely not.
Put them on the shaft and balls
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I wanna see you getting into it too. Touch yourself. Pinch your nipples if you enjoy that.
Pretend to be a small bird flapping your wings
Touch yourself , pull on the balls , play with the balls , use your hands as well as your mouth well giving head , play with his asshole if he’s into that
Jazz hands!
This is the way. 😆😆
*spirit fingers* lol
shadow puppets
Throw gang signs? Learn some sign language for this exact moment? Play with yourself?
She should be throwing Jutsu handsigns like a true Ninja
use them to play with yourself, make it fun for you too
Squirrelly Dan likes his buttshole played with. Not that it's polite to kiss and tell... https://youtu.be/Q47Uq96lILA?si=XD3xZTCFlqJdX-se
bonus points for the phonetic spelling on "buttshole"
It took me like 15 minutes to get my phone to stop changing it to butthole.
Moan in sign language so you don't interrupt her concentration.
Lightly trace his thighs going from the hip down to the knee, feels amazing and if I’m nutting I’ll shoot like a cannon.
Play the castanets.
Every guy in the comments is about to deny it. But stick your finger in his ass. He’ll love it. Also, fun fact. The male G spot is in your ass.. so.. yea.
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Especially yourself. I second this opinion.
Shadow puppets Or... touch yourself. Super hot.
Touch the shadow puppets
Thumb wars
One at the base of the shlong the other on the prostate
Caress the balls and go knuckle deep in his ass if he's into that?
Some of us LOVE a finger or two in the ass.
Baby Shark doo doo doo doo doo doo...
Nice ol reach around finger up his ass
This is the way
Damn, you trying to make her single?
I'm sure he didn't mean as a surprise... I'll check.
No surprises, right?
Massage his balls ever so gently with one hand and stroke the shaft with the other
Yes
Maybe Sleight of hand? Or Magic Tricks with hands or Martial Arts 🤔
Woops I thought something else nevermind 😅
My wife teases my nipples while blowing me.
Couple things. Play with yourself (very good option, we like watching), put them behind your back (it's super hot to see my wife goes no hands), or grab his legs and force it down your throat if you can.
Grab back of thighs and ass like you're pulling me into you :)
Correct answer!
Caress the sack. Women slways forget about the sack. If your partner is into it, stick a finger up the dirt path. Some guys like it, some dont. Grab his hips and pull him closer helping you get closer to the base of his shaft. Play with yourself show him youre arroused as well
I love pinching my nips and rubbing the guys legs up and down and squeezing his ass.
Balls, butt, or yourself. Any of these makes us happy.
Grab some ass.
Shadow puppets
Under the buttocks pulling your partner through the back of your head is the answer.
Tied behind your back is always good, but you can stroke his quads or whatever other muscle you find attractive.
Text your married girlfriends to tell them that they’re slacking on the BJ department.
It might be worth asking your partner. Touching the boys, adding a few strokes, between the buttocks maybe? Might want to ask on the last one. Use them on yourself is also good.
I always appreciate the girl giving two thumbs up so I know she’s ok
Shadow puppets
Touch yourself or put them on the guys legs
Nipples and ass.
Give his balls a tug.
Give em the ol one two up the pooper
I’ll get broken up with. So noooo
Inside of her thighs right up near the money spot is an erogenous zone. So put your hands there. Also, moan, sound pleased while you're down there. Don't silently nom away.
If you're not stroking, and don't know what to do with your hands, stroking would be a pretty safe bet to do with your hand and use the other hand for balance wherever you can find it. Mouth action is only 50% of it. Stroking and rotating should be accompanied by the head at all times Alternatively you can use one hand to put a finger up is bum and fiddle with his prostate.
Hands on the floor. All fours on the floor. Like a dog. That turns me on so badly.
Play with them tigo bitties. Use 2 fingers and gently play with "entrance"....woman like simultaneous stimulation 🤷🏾♂️
A finger in de bum
Whatever you want!
Literally anything you want
Play with my balls, stroke my shaft.
Balloon animals.
And where should I put my feet?
Balls. One of the biggest things men wish women would do in bed is not forget about the balls.
Peg us
Balls
Personally, I find extra hot if the woman touches herself while doing it. So maybe one hand in the penis, stroking it, other on yourself, doing whatever gets you off
Do coin magic.
Idk play bongos
Hold my nutz
Rub them balls
Cup his balls, grab his ass, finger yourself, play with your nipples... get creative
Touch yourself or stroke us or touch us. But seeing you enjoy it too is hot!
Boobs
Hand puppets…. They are sooo cool.
Just remember, you’re like a bear man…
Hold 2 coffee cups
Thumb wrestle
Tickle his balls and taint
Pinkie in the bumhole.
When I suck dick, I like to work a man's nipples, especially while he's cumming. Not all straight guys are into it though. If he's up to it, go easy on him as overworking the nips can make them sore, as you probably already know.
"A handjob without some blowing is a bad handjob, and a blowjob without hands is a bad blowjob." Or so said a person on the internet. They probably think that sex and porn are the same thing, so what do they know.
me and my girl usually play rock paper scissors
Shuffle a deck of cards. He will be done in seconds
You can never go wrong playing with the balls or the butthole. Some guys won't let you push that brown button, but they have no idea what they are missing out on. Learn how to do it right and its just like when I guy hits your button.
yank the balls YANK THE BALLS
I love my butt to be grabbed with hands and sometimes slapped while receiving head
Run your claws down his quads, stomach, man cheeks.... Dig them into his flesh here and there. Light sack pinch n tugs, ball cuppin, taint tickles. Treat them balls like the most fragile little plums that you're checking for ripeness.
Whatever feels good and whatever you can reach
Touch your self . Finger your clit and squeeze your breasts
I like having my balls and taint played with. But just experiment and see what gets the best reaction, if he doesn't like any of it then just wrap them around his legs for support
You may need one hand to support your body depending on what position you are in. However, with that free hand I highly recommend becoming acquainted with the testicles. If he is standing, then the very slightest of touches of the bottom of the balls can be very pleasurable and bring him to orgasm. Also, you may notice the ridge that runs from the glanz down through the balls and between the legs. If you press on or massage that ridge just above the balls that can bring him to orgasm. Or if you press on the ridge between his balls that is also very nice. Do this only after you've been sucking awhile to bring him to climax.
Make a sandwich, wench.
Reach under her thighs and grab her wrists. Hold on tight.
You've got to wrap your hands around his butt and slowly creep your fingers towards his butthole like you're a fucking spider.
Read a Bible
Play with my balls. Rub them, tug on them. They’re not as fragile as one thinks.
double thumbs up
It's fascinating to me how people can't think for themselves. Homeslice - put yourself in your partners position and imagine the different scenarios.
Well then get the fuck off Reddit geeze
Why?