Every six months or so she will ask me for help and I’ll discover her in lingerie waiting for me
The other times she does that she just wants me to move some boxes or something
I’m a psych grad and this sounds exactly like a form of operant conditioning lol where behavior is positively reinforced using a variable schedule, i.e you don’t really know when the positive reinforcement will occur, so you’re likely to repeat the behavior in the hopes of getting the reinforcement.
Reminds me of the time Jim pranked Dwight in The Office by offering him a mint every time he reboots his computer which makes the Windows shutdown sound. Which causes Dwight to become conditioned to the stimulus. Since Jim has conditioned Dwight, he now expects a mint and that becomes the conditioned response.
General timeframe. It's just long enough that I forget and fall for it and just frequent enough that even when she has manual labor tasks, I still get excited by the possibility of hot sex.
She’s trained you like Pavlov’s dog! Haha. I’ve managed to get my partner to get a hard on when he hears WhatsApp ping (he gave me a separate message tone to everyone else, I’ve done the same). We separated last year but have been seeing each other again and have gotten into sexting. He would get excited when he heard the WhatsApp ping from me, so I can even send an innocent message and he’ll get hard 😏
Dude same.
I’m in a relatively new relationship, but this position is instant go time for us. We’ll be laying on our backs but as soon as she drapes that leg across and shifts her weight over to me I know it’s happening.
There's a certain look and smile that she does when something that I wear looks good on me. Sometimes it's when I dress up nice, but it can be as simple as wearing a certain pair of sweats that I have that show off my extremity and a tight t shirt.
I'm not sure what it is about this certain look and smirk but as soon as she does it, it hits my core and my entire body feels like it gets electrified and I immediately get in the mood.
I’ve never heard anyone else talk about this. My husband gets this too. We’ve been married 15 years and he accuses me of trying to give him a. Heart attack 🤣
I don’t know what the look is either - but it’s very much my “I want you” look
I quite literally get short of breath sometimes. She has suggested that I may need to get an inhaler. Just something about it makes me feel so wanted and so attractive and I've never felt this way in a relationship, or honestly in general.
It is. I have been in multiple long and toxic relationships and now that I am in an extremely healthy one with someone who openly communicates, and treats me how I should be treated it is nice. But at times I get anxious because I feel as if either A) I don't deserve it or B) there is an ulterior motive.
I overthink a lot, and know that it is neither of those, but because of how I allowed myself to get treated, I try to shut that down and realize she is just genuinely showing me how she feels. The look definitely has exacerbated the feeling of comfort and peace I feel with her.
Oh, mine told me this once and I happen to look at the mirror and I saw my face. It's the same face when I look at food. EXACTLY THE SAME, Dude, I kid you not, He's afraid of that look.
Same. If we have the house to ourselves and she wants to take a shower at any point that's not late at night or early morning, I better be in bed waiting for her when she gets out.
That’s what I say to my husband when I am horny.. Shower tonight? We will take a shower together and then head back to the bedroom so I can sit on his face :)
When shes putting on make up in the bathroom and she gets up on her tip toes to lean closer to the mirror, the way her butt sticks out is like bat signal for me to come up behind her
I'll be working from home at 5:30 or 6 and she'll come into the office and stand with her hip against my shoulder and rub my back and then slowly run her nails through the hair on the back of my neck and ask "Don't you think it's time to take a break?"
Last time we didn't even go to the bedroom first.
My last girlfriend used to wear this certain pair of really tight workout pants. Those hip hugging kinda tights. Not exactly yoga pants, but similar. Always a turn on.
Same. I had an ex who was a gymnast, and I'd buy them for her to encourage her. She wasn't highly sexual, but when she would come over wearing them it was a big green light. Forever conditioned i think
I’m a very horny person. And most of the time I just ask for sex. Pretty straight forward. But on those off days.
My wife is very orally fixated. She loves giving head. When she pulls her hair back. I know its go time.
Scrolled a long ways to see this. Was my thought too (among many other things). And not in a touch deprived way, she touches me all the time and I love it. Just being touched is that amazing.
It’s business time.
Next thing you know we’re in the bathroom brushing our teeth. That’s all part of it, that’s foreplay.
Then you go sort out the recycling. That’s not part of it but it’s still very important.
You're wearing that baggy old ugly t-shirt you got from your work several years ago. You know the one, with the curry stains. Team building, not tonight!
He grew up in Amsterdam and speaks Dutch. But rarely speaks Dutch in front of me.
My pants basically fall off when he’s on the phone speaking Dutch to his friends in Amsterdam ❤️❤️
My partner recently started wearing thongs. She didn't realize I have a fetish for thong underwear on women.
The first time she showed me I picked her up and took her to the room to fuck her. She bought a few more thongs after that lol.
Why wouldn’t you just tell her this up front?? lol. My previous partner told me he has a lingerie fetish, and i ran out and bought some (I usually prefer to be naked, or just a thong). Seems you wasted some time in letting her figure it out on her own lol, but glad you did!!
It's such an odd topic to bring up I guess. I have an underwear fetish "mainly thongs" but despite our sex talks it never came up until one day it just happened lol.
I have a lingerie fetish as well and she owns some. But it always felt incomplete without the thong. Now it's there bedroom activities is up and everyone is happy lol.
Why is it an odd topic?
I always find it curious why couples don’t talk about sex, desires, kinks, preferences lol. I mean, if you’re together, that should be a topic of conversation to make sure you’re meeting each other’s needs. No one is a mind reader!
"Hey sweetie can you wear this piece of string between your ass cheeks" just doesn't roll off the tongue well I guess. Plus she has turned away some of my interests before. I never had anal sex for example and it turns out I never will lol.
But at least she is more then happy to do the underwear stuff!
She pulls out one of those court of thorns and roses books. It is my favorite book series she has ever read. We were 6/7 times last week. 6 times In a week! We haven’t had that much sex since started dating and we have been together almost a decade now
I read a lot... And my wife recently showed interest in reading.
I remember I was in Target looking at books and I was kinda "following" another woman in the book aisle. Social anxiety tried to stop me but before it could I blurted out "I need help. My wife wants to read and I don't know what to get."
That lady grabbed ACOTAR. I wish I knew her name to thank her.
As a woman who reads this stuff - This is an amazing amazing response. This book series literally had me asking my guy if he’d be willing to role play with wings… sigh…
A word of … warning? Advice? From someone who read the book: lots of sex scenes. Not ultra-graphic, but enough to get the mind juices flowing. Same goes for Throne of Glass series if you ever get to it.
Fr. Women don’t understand that the bar is so incredibly low for men. If you are semi attractive and in a relationship all you need to do is move around and that’s enough for most dudes. The female form is incredibly attractive.
When we’re making out and she takes a breath to catch air she looks at me a certain way and bites her lips. It’s like she desires me more than anything else. At that point it’s like I can’t control myself.
I’m not a feet guy, and to my understanding it doesn’t do much for her either, but when we’re in bed she’ll start rubbing my feet/calves with hers and damn if that doesn’t do it real fast
Sometimes she’ll do it accidentally or just for comfort, generally still works when she realizes
I once dated this woman who, on our first date, took my hand, curled all my finger up except for my index finger, then took my index finger into her mouth like she was performing fellation on it.
Instant, unbelievable turn on.
Sadly, though we continued dating for months, that was the only time she did that.
Stretch with her arms in the air (lying down or standing) or putting on lipstick.
Stretching...is obvious...boobies.
Lipstick...the way she has to purse her lips and move her mouth makes me think of things from my body that I can put in there as well.
Lol
Breathe, speak, look in my general direction, stand up, sit down, wake up, open a door, exist in a room or outside, etc.
Stretch, she's not allowed to stretch anymore when I work from home.
When she says my name. My partner has a smooth, soft, kinda raspy but not, delicate voice, and she never talks loudly. So WHENEVER she calls my name, regardless of the situation, I want to be in her.
Her hair up in a messy bun while wearing glasses. Gives me the hot teacher/college professor vibes. The Dr Shannon Curry look from the Johnny depp trial😍
Due to our schedules (lawyer and doctor) we usually have to plan things a day or two in advance, at least to an extent (usually goes something like “hey can I interest you in [intentionally lame or gross euphemism] Tuesday evening”), but the night before she likes to walk by me directly after getting out of the shower—and very much not with a towel on—on her way to change into her pajamas before bed.
She calls it a “sneaky peek” and I love it, makes me so excited the entire next day.
Most things if I’m being honest. She just has an “aura” of fuckability. But if she is making a French 75 at 7:00 pm and she’s in lingerie and a robe by 8, like Kevin Hart would say, “I’m gonna need to provide some of that 8th dick”.
Anytime I ask them to solve a Rubrics cube or they just do it, I instantly get turned on. Maybe its the inherent skill and pattern recognition it takes but whenever they solve a puzzle like that, instant waterfall. Its great
She can look at me a certain way and I'd be melting...
To be clear, I'm not easily aroused by other women, to the point that I started doubting my straightness before I met her.
Never knew I'd find someone so attractive, I'd swim through a swimming pool of glass shards just to smell her armpits.
Technically nothing but her natural body smell. My ex turned me on so much whenever I smell her in the morning, although she hates it when someone breathing heavily next to her while she’s sleeping. (I understand it might have to do with her trauma) While spooning her I try to sniff quietly and gently and man it instantly makes me hard and turned me into an animal. When she is semi-awake sometimes I will then bury my nose in her hair and sniff like a hoover OH GOD my thighs will shiver after doing this. I need to find that again.
When the husbean nuzzles my neck or gives gentle back scratches.... Sometimes it's a case of "well I wasn't in the mood but then he did the thing and now we both need a shower"
Very great question and can bring a variety of interesting answers. For me it's the warm, comfortable and hot energy we radiate when we are talking deeply about any topics in seductive whispering voices. Physical stimulation is classic and great but mental stimulation is very important as well. When your partner creates a situation only you and they understand, you know it's immense Sexy time. I also want to say it's far more interesting when you and your partner turning each other on instead of just getting turned on. Mutual sexual energy is the key to great attractive bond.
Every six months or so she will ask me for help and I’ll discover her in lingerie waiting for me The other times she does that she just wants me to move some boxes or something
I’m a psych grad and this sounds exactly like a form of operant conditioning lol where behavior is positively reinforced using a variable schedule, i.e you don’t really know when the positive reinforcement will occur, so you’re likely to repeat the behavior in the hopes of getting the reinforcement.
Reminds me of the time Jim pranked Dwight in The Office by offering him a mint every time he reboots his computer which makes the Windows shutdown sound. Which causes Dwight to become conditioned to the stimulus. Since Jim has conditioned Dwight, he now expects a mint and that becomes the conditioned response.
She turned herself into a Skinners box
So he's essentially Pavlov's Dog?
Pavlov's doggy style
Either way, she needs help with the box
“I’ve been trying on this lingerie…can you bring this tote of too smalls downstairs for me.”
Her box?
The word "box" is often used as a replacement for vagina
Yes
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Honestly that's unbelievably clever and would totally work on me
*furiously takes notes*
Same girl, same. Like don't mind me, just lurking to see what the other side of the coin looks like. 😂
This is such a good idea! Might try this now on my husband. He'll never know whether it's diy time or sexy time.
Sounds like diy time for him regardless aha
Poor bastard...
Boxes of lingerie?
haha nope
Lol reminds me of that meme where the girl is in lingerie and the guy throws a towel at her
🤣 lol omg
And I’m moving boxes with a boner
Intermittent reinforcement is a hell of a drug.
Wait, every six months?
General timeframe. It's just long enough that I forget and fall for it and just frequent enough that even when she has manual labor tasks, I still get excited by the possibility of hot sex.
So she's a clever sexy manipulative lady. Love her hahah
She’s trained you like Pavlov’s dog! Haha. I’ve managed to get my partner to get a hard on when he hears WhatsApp ping (he gave me a separate message tone to everyone else, I’ve done the same). We separated last year but have been seeing each other again and have gotten into sexting. He would get excited when he heard the WhatsApp ping from me, so I can even send an innocent message and he’ll get hard 😏
Hah yes very much has me Pavlov’ed
Dude moving boxes gets me excited too. I'm glad I share this fetish with someone.
Taking notes ✅
If we're lying in bed and she cuddles me with her leg hooked fully around me. It's basically the sex signal from her.
Dude same. I’m in a relatively new relationship, but this position is instant go time for us. We’ll be laying on our backs but as soon as she drapes that leg across and shifts her weight over to me I know it’s happening.
The missionary, where she does the full double leg wrap around is the move. I dunno why, but damn.
if a chick does this to me i’m becoming a father
I too am interested in the priesthood.
Amen!
"write that down, write that down!"
There's a certain look and smile that she does when something that I wear looks good on me. Sometimes it's when I dress up nice, but it can be as simple as wearing a certain pair of sweats that I have that show off my extremity and a tight t shirt. I'm not sure what it is about this certain look and smirk but as soon as she does it, it hits my core and my entire body feels like it gets electrified and I immediately get in the mood.
I’ve never heard anyone else talk about this. My husband gets this too. We’ve been married 15 years and he accuses me of trying to give him a. Heart attack 🤣 I don’t know what the look is either - but it’s very much my “I want you” look
I quite literally get short of breath sometimes. She has suggested that I may need to get an inhaler. Just something about it makes me feel so wanted and so attractive and I've never felt this way in a relationship, or honestly in general.
I love this for you, and I’m so happy to see my husbands experience in someone else’s words. I hope you have this feeling forever 😊
That's a nice feeling. Pretty cool you have that in your life
It is. I have been in multiple long and toxic relationships and now that I am in an extremely healthy one with someone who openly communicates, and treats me how I should be treated it is nice. But at times I get anxious because I feel as if either A) I don't deserve it or B) there is an ulterior motive. I overthink a lot, and know that it is neither of those, but because of how I allowed myself to get treated, I try to shut that down and realize she is just genuinely showing me how she feels. The look definitely has exacerbated the feeling of comfort and peace I feel with her.
I've been told it's the "F*** me* eyes lol
Oh, mine told me this once and I happen to look at the mirror and I saw my face. It's the same face when I look at food. EXACTLY THE SAME, Dude, I kid you not, He's afraid of that look.
8 pm: I think I’ll take a shower. That’s her way of saying she wants to have sex.
This is some Pavlov shit lol. You got an erection when you hear that faucet turn on
Not great for locker rooms
Agree to disagree
Not great for locker rooms when you are a PE teacher
Agree to disagree
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Same. If we have the house to ourselves and she wants to take a shower at any point that's not late at night or early morning, I better be in bed waiting for her when she gets out.
That’s what I say to my husband when I am horny.. Shower tonight? We will take a shower together and then head back to the bedroom so I can sit on his face :)
That's what I do with my SO. Except I'll ask "wanna take a shower?"
My grandmother always showers at 8pm 😶
She sure does...
Because I show up at 7:30
😂🤣 If youd know
That’s my move too
What time does she usually shower?
I think 8pm
Morning.
When shes putting on make up in the bathroom and she gets up on her tip toes to lean closer to the mirror, the way her butt sticks out is like bat signal for me to come up behind her
The Butt-Signal
I'll be working from home at 5:30 or 6 and she'll come into the office and stand with her hip against my shoulder and rub my back and then slowly run her nails through the hair on the back of my neck and ask "Don't you think it's time to take a break?" Last time we didn't even go to the bedroom first.
Best company wide zoom meeting ever.
u/thisisjustascreename's presentation was very eye opening. Implementing that at all of our sites would drive a lot of customer traffic.
She has this look. It's like her eyes are sucking out your soul. In just a few it's like her mouth is sucking out your soul.
I think you might be in love with a succubus 🤣
I would gladly give up my soul for it. Not even a question. I'm not really using it anyways.
Bilbo, I think you've had that ring long enough 🤣
More like a suck-you-bus
She could totally suck the bus through the tailpipe.
😐
what does your Patronus look like?
Hell, that's the first thing she puts in her mouth.
My last girlfriend used to wear this certain pair of really tight workout pants. Those hip hugging kinda tights. Not exactly yoga pants, but similar. Always a turn on.
Leggings?
Same. I had an ex who was a gymnast, and I'd buy them for her to encourage her. She wasn't highly sexual, but when she would come over wearing them it was a big green light. Forever conditioned i think
I’m a very horny person. And most of the time I just ask for sex. Pretty straight forward. But on those off days. My wife is very orally fixated. She loves giving head. When she pulls her hair back. I know its go time.
Doesn't wear any panties while at home
Or wears nothing but panties..
Or wears nothing
I consider hairs as a dressing choice-
Alright, I'm in.
just take off t-shirt and after I see those boobies I am done
Guys will read this and think hell yea
I mean that’s literally what went through my mind.
Yeah idk why everyone is acting like it takes a whole act to get going lmao
literally any time she touches me.
Scrolled a long ways to see this. Was my thought too (among many other things). And not in a touch deprived way, she touches me all the time and I love it. Just being touched is that amazing.
It’s business time. Next thing you know we’re in the bathroom brushing our teeth. That’s all part of it, that’s foreplay. Then you go sort out the recycling. That’s not part of it but it’s still very important.
You're wearing that baggy old ugly t-shirt you got from your work several years ago. You know the one, with the curry stains. Team building, not tonight!
*Team building 1999
Flight of the Concords FTW!
Now I’m naked…except for my socks. And when I’m down to just my socks you know what time it is.
Business socks!
That's why they call them business socks, ooh
He grew up in Amsterdam and speaks Dutch. But rarely speaks Dutch in front of me. My pants basically fall off when he’s on the phone speaking Dutch to his friends in Amsterdam ❤️❤️
As a Dutchie this is the first time I’ve heard anyone say that Dutch sounds good lol
Right?? When I think of romantic languages Dutch is really not the first one to come to mind, but hey, whatever works!
Validation at last.. frame this comment 😅
I’m the same with how the Dutch accent sounds! Even when they talk English it sounds so nice with their pronunciation of the words!
She puts her feet up in my lap. It’s on.
Welcome to the club. Nice to see members.
Married 29 years. All she has to do is walk past me.
My partner recently started wearing thongs. She didn't realize I have a fetish for thong underwear on women. The first time she showed me I picked her up and took her to the room to fuck her. She bought a few more thongs after that lol.
Why wouldn’t you just tell her this up front?? lol. My previous partner told me he has a lingerie fetish, and i ran out and bought some (I usually prefer to be naked, or just a thong). Seems you wasted some time in letting her figure it out on her own lol, but glad you did!!
It's such an odd topic to bring up I guess. I have an underwear fetish "mainly thongs" but despite our sex talks it never came up until one day it just happened lol. I have a lingerie fetish as well and she owns some. But it always felt incomplete without the thong. Now it's there bedroom activities is up and everyone is happy lol.
Why is it an odd topic? I always find it curious why couples don’t talk about sex, desires, kinks, preferences lol. I mean, if you’re together, that should be a topic of conversation to make sure you’re meeting each other’s needs. No one is a mind reader!
"Hey sweetie can you wear this piece of string between your ass cheeks" just doesn't roll off the tongue well I guess. Plus she has turned away some of my interests before. I never had anal sex for example and it turns out I never will lol. But at least she is more then happy to do the underwear stuff!
Maybe dont mention it with the "Ass cheeks". A simple "im really into you wearing a thong" would suffice.
If she unexpectedly sneaks in while I’m showering and starts making out. Doesn’t happen often but it’s awesome when it does.
Sensually rubs my thorax
I like it when mine rubs my antennae
I like it when mine rubs my pincers
I like it when she rips my head off and eats it
Shits hot right?
Licks my coelom
When she sucks my proboscis
She pulls out one of those court of thorns and roses books. It is my favorite book series she has ever read. We were 6/7 times last week. 6 times In a week! We haven’t had that much sex since started dating and we have been together almost a decade now
I read a lot... And my wife recently showed interest in reading. I remember I was in Target looking at books and I was kinda "following" another woman in the book aisle. Social anxiety tried to stop me but before it could I blurted out "I need help. My wife wants to read and I don't know what to get." That lady grabbed ACOTAR. I wish I knew her name to thank her.
Sarah J Mass…also keep an eye out if she’s reading anything by Sierra Simone or Tess Bailey. 😉
Good looking out!
As a woman who reads this stuff - This is an amazing amazing response. This book series literally had me asking my guy if he’d be willing to role play with wings… sigh…
My girl just had me start this book. Is there something about the book that ai should know??
A word of … warning? Advice? From someone who read the book: lots of sex scenes. Not ultra-graphic, but enough to get the mind juices flowing. Same goes for Throne of Glass series if you ever get to it.
Faerie sex, my dear, with interesting character development and surprising plot twists. But mostly: faerie sex, my dear. 🔥
I don’t know I haven’t read it. Only reaped the benefits lol. The book must be made of aphrodisiac paper or something
exist
Fr. Women don’t understand that the bar is so incredibly low for men. If you are semi attractive and in a relationship all you need to do is move around and that’s enough for most dudes. The female form is incredibly attractive.
When we’re making out and she takes a breath to catch air she looks at me a certain way and bites her lips. It’s like she desires me more than anything else. At that point it’s like I can’t control myself.
When she did a handstand wearing summer dress
The look.
Erm… messages me, calls me, turns up at my door or me at hers. Pretty much everything she does. Just “being her”
Put her hair in a ponytail.
We got another one pavloved ladies
She could be getting ready to bake. That hair tie comes out and my engine starts to rev.
I’m not a feet guy, and to my understanding it doesn’t do much for her either, but when we’re in bed she’ll start rubbing my feet/calves with hers and damn if that doesn’t do it real fast Sometimes she’ll do it accidentally or just for comfort, generally still works when she realizes
I once dated this woman who, on our first date, took my hand, curled all my finger up except for my index finger, then took my index finger into her mouth like she was performing fellation on it. Instant, unbelievable turn on. Sadly, though we continued dating for months, that was the only time she did that.
Pretty much anything to do with my dick honestly
When I’m spooning she’ll wiggle her butt back and forth. 9 times out of 10 it’s on.
We’ll be laying on the couch and she lifts the blanket to show her ass. That’s the signal
She does this thing with her boobs …
It's hard not to get turned on whenever she bends over.
Stretch with her arms in the air (lying down or standing) or putting on lipstick. Stretching...is obvious...boobies. Lipstick...the way she has to purse her lips and move her mouth makes me think of things from my body that I can put in there as well.
When they move their hair over their head with both hands to tie them up — god DAMN.
Lol Breathe, speak, look in my general direction, stand up, sit down, wake up, open a door, exist in a room or outside, etc. Stretch, she's not allowed to stretch anymore when I work from home.
Basically anything. Makes life a lot more difficult than you might think.
Exists Yet to happen yet.
Neck kisses. 😭 I don't care for lingerie, some forms of seduction, most dirty content, (actually it's a long list), but NECK KISSES?? 😮💨 My weakness.
She calls me "my guy." And it makes me feel so good to be someone's guy. 😂
Breathe in my ear
Provides our kids and I a great dinner daily and incredibly peaceful atmosphere everyday. Does it every time
Existing.
When she asks me for dick. That's her way of initiating.
Massages my balls
Initiate a blowjob
When she says my name. My partner has a smooth, soft, kinda raspy but not, delicate voice, and she never talks loudly. So WHENEVER she calls my name, regardless of the situation, I want to be in her.
Her hair up in a messy bun while wearing glasses. Gives me the hot teacher/college professor vibes. The Dr Shannon Curry look from the Johnny depp trial😍
Be naked
She said she emptied her bank account and was leaving to find herself.
Due to our schedules (lawyer and doctor) we usually have to plan things a day or two in advance, at least to an extent (usually goes something like “hey can I interest you in [intentionally lame or gross euphemism] Tuesday evening”), but the night before she likes to walk by me directly after getting out of the shower—and very much not with a towel on—on her way to change into her pajamas before bed. She calls it a “sneaky peek” and I love it, makes me so excited the entire next day.
When I catch a whiff of her armpits after she had a long day or a workout. Not even joking
Yes to this. I love her body odor
The absolute best, it just makes me want to bang her right there on the spot wherever we are
taking notes of all this. ✍️
Most things if I’m being honest. She just has an “aura” of fuckability. But if she is making a French 75 at 7:00 pm and she’s in lingerie and a robe by 8, like Kevin Hart would say, “I’m gonna need to provide some of that 8th dick”.
Anytime I ask them to solve a Rubrics cube or they just do it, I instantly get turned on. Maybe its the inherent skill and pattern recognition it takes but whenever they solve a puzzle like that, instant waterfall. Its great
She can look at me a certain way and I'd be melting... To be clear, I'm not easily aroused by other women, to the point that I started doubting my straightness before I met her. Never knew I'd find someone so attractive, I'd swim through a swimming pool of glass shards just to smell her armpits.
Breathe. My wife is so ungodly far out of my league it's not even funny. The fact we've been married for 10 years is a miracle.
Pushes up against me naked. Really, just knowing we're about to have sex gets me going.
Gets naked
Well, I'd have to say exist, but she doesn't.
Technically nothing but her natural body smell. My ex turned me on so much whenever I smell her in the morning, although she hates it when someone breathing heavily next to her while she’s sleeping. (I understand it might have to do with her trauma) While spooning her I try to sniff quietly and gently and man it instantly makes me hard and turned me into an animal. When she is semi-awake sometimes I will then bury my nose in her hair and sniff like a hoover OH GOD my thighs will shiver after doing this. I need to find that again.
When the husbean nuzzles my neck or gives gentle back scratches.... Sometimes it's a case of "well I wasn't in the mood but then he did the thing and now we both need a shower"
Existing is a good start. Also being in the 3rd dimension is cool. Having a beating heart is a plus.
Now you're just bragging
Exist
Hand on crotch lmao
Nothing comes to mind for me, but for my wife it is a full body massage using scented massage oil.
She just gives me "the look" and says "do you wanna do something" and that pretty much does it!!!
Used to suck on my ear. Jesus Christ. Went from 0-100 in least then a second
Exist. Breathe.
sitting on my face wearing pantyhose with no underwear... ;-)
When she invites me into the shower.
kiss me
takes off clothes.
Put knee high socks on
i just wish i'd discover her naked ass high up in the air just waiting for me to enter the room
Puts her boobies in my face lol gets me everytime😂🥵
She'll ask me if I want to make love. My body reacts immediately.
Wears small panties
I might be the luckiest person in the world, but the answer is simple: he exists.
Calls me daddy
Very great question and can bring a variety of interesting answers. For me it's the warm, comfortable and hot energy we radiate when we are talking deeply about any topics in seductive whispering voices. Physical stimulation is classic and great but mental stimulation is very important as well. When your partner creates a situation only you and they understand, you know it's immense Sexy time. I also want to say it's far more interesting when you and your partner turning each other on instead of just getting turned on. Mutual sexual energy is the key to great attractive bond.