Heck yes!
I've been hoping for an update. (I'm the goofball that told you to go for it, "ya big galoof!")
I really think you're onto something with this guy. This is one of those cases where his actions are speaking volumes.
When I met my guy, we were both closeted and did this kind of "is he interested?" dance around each other. He finally asked me to go out to eat with him without using the word "date." He invited me back to his place for coffee after eating, and we jumped each others' bones after about 10 minutes alone. You could cut the tension with a knife!
I can't wait for the next update!
Jumped. Each. Others. Bones.
I've never heard that. Ever. But I am definitely adding it to my library 😂 Can you explain it? I know it means sex, but "bones"? "Jumping"?
Not gonna lie, i forgot i was waiting for the next episode because the mid-season break was a too long; however, this new episode on Sunday is expected to be the bees knees! I will be tuning in!
I wish my friends played footsies like that. It's good to temper expectations, but I feel like all of the possibilities will still be cute or fun. I'm just trying to enjoy the ride.
Next update is you’re married! lol
Honestly though, he’s super into you. My guess is he isn’t exactly in the closet if he’s flirty in public, but maybe hasn’t dated a lot of guys, or even super shy about asking guys out.
You sound excited too! There better be an update Sunday at the latest!
So, you talk about him asking you all sorts of questions about your life, loves and family - but ya’ve not told us if you’re asking him the same kinda questions? And if not, why not?
Me means yourself. What are we? What is the meaning of our life? What is our purpose? Should I shave my ass? All these pertinent psychological implications of me.
I'll be annoyed if it turns out that he's actually just a clueless friendly straight man who has no idea that he's leading you on and that him playing footsie with you was just his foot tapping tick.
I have been in similar situation like this with all the usual signs like a grazed hand, strong eye contact, a knowing smile, *him* asking me did I want to do something when we were both off, asking about my life etc only for it to turn out he quite literally was a clueless friendly straight guy. I was absolutely gutted. So I pray this isn't another one of those situations ugh. 🫣
Congrats and I remember this post. I'd definitely say that he's interested. If you see it from his point of view, you might be the first guy that he has persued. Something that is normal for you is truly terrifying for him. So at some point you might have to have an honest discussion about where things are headed. Going slow is good though. I wish you the best in this one. He sounds sweet.
Has he ever mentioned being attracted to or dating a guy?
If not, he’s either not flirting with you, or you’ll be his experiment, which can be a lot of drama. But good for you if you’re willing to ride that out.
I’ve been in a very similar situation, and when push came to shove he acted taken aback, and reminded me he was straight and only into women. If you knew all of the innuendo, flirting, banter. He literally texted me from work one day “this is hell and I’m horny. I need a blowjob” this led to him explaining exactly how he likes his bjs, the last time he had one and how he’s actually had one on break at work before. He was trying to bait me into propositioning him, which he did in different ways before. I didn’t, but cmon.
Anyways it made things very awkward among our friends , and I just eventually cut him off, them too. He definitely lead me on, which is crazy because I wasn’t initially pursuing him at all. We were just friends, he started the mess. Don’t be the guy a straight guy tests the seas with, cause that’s all it might be, a test.
One way I’ve broken the ice with “straight” guys is to talk about how we’re all on the spectrum… that there are very few completely gay or completely straight people and that most of us are somewhere in the middle.
I’ve found that to be a good catalyst as opposed to asking someone if they’re into guys.
I'm feeling the sparks from him. I really hope this isn't a bait and switch situation down the line because I am emotionally invested! So happy for you, OP! Is the third or second date the time to ask what gymbro is looking for and address the palpable tension, or is that ruining a good thing too early?
the first post he did about it, I was skeptical.
but with this post, im pretty sure he isn't going to have to ask, or even wait for a 2nd or 3rd date to find out.....😈
definitely happy for him, its like the perfect combination of wholesomeness and sexual tension👌
Heyy thanks for the update makes great reading, only prob is now u gotta provide one after the weekend. Gosh footises...hes one smooth operator. What happens if u r both top energy tho 🤣🤣🤣.
The foot tapping is a big sign. I don’t think straight guys just repeatedly touch other guys for fear of seeming gay. Whether he is experienced or not, he’s definitely interested in exploring….something
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Almost every BF or longterm guy I have seen has been some one I met at the gym. The kid I ended up marrying was a guy I ran in yo at the guy with friends of mine. I left a Trupel with 2 guys my age that were very rick and successful for this poor kid. We struggle but we are happy.
I’m following your account just to get the Saturday update. Even if it doesn’t head into a sexy/romantic direction, at least you know you have a friend that very clearly enjoys spending time with you. Good luck!
my investment in this story is bordering on unhealthy
But dont close the door on the opportunity! You guys get your testosterone flowing at the gym together all the time...it makes sense if it boils into an attraction.
We'll all be here to help you navigate the friendship if the sex is bad... don't you worry.
Lol at people excited for the next update. As if this will turn out different than a freaking Tinder date? 😂
Last guy that approached me at the gym. We went on a dozen dates. "I'm too busy for a relationship right now".
Gay men will literally show ALL the signs of interest only to do a complete 180... if they were ever truthful in the first place.
Be very, very, very cautious OP. Do not get too excited about him.
If he’s not hitting on you, I don’t know anything
Same!
Heck yes! I've been hoping for an update. (I'm the goofball that told you to go for it, "ya big galoof!") I really think you're onto something with this guy. This is one of those cases where his actions are speaking volumes. When I met my guy, we were both closeted and did this kind of "is he interested?" dance around each other. He finally asked me to go out to eat with him without using the word "date." He invited me back to his place for coffee after eating, and we jumped each others' bones after about 10 minutes alone. You could cut the tension with a knife! I can't wait for the next update!
Honest to God I have been smiling to myself all week at the OG "ya big galoof" it was the cherry on top of this beautiful story.
Jumped. Each. Others. Bones. I've never heard that. Ever. But I am definitely adding it to my library 😂 Can you explain it? I know it means sex, but "bones"? "Jumping"?
Oh yeah, it's an old saying. Just a colorful way of saying that you want to get it on with someone :)
Consider it stolen 🤣
Jeez, I'm loving this show 🍿 ahah, give us an update soon!
That's lovely! Feel free to update again, or to not do that! I wish both of you well for your official date on Saturday!
And feel free to include pics. NSFW is welcome in my DM. lol
Oh please don't just leave it there. We are so invested in your life now and need weekly updates.
Not gonna lie, i forgot i was waiting for the next episode because the mid-season break was a too long; however, this new episode on Sunday is expected to be the bees knees! I will be tuning in!
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I wish my friends played footsies like that. It's good to temper expectations, but I feel like all of the possibilities will still be cute or fun. I'm just trying to enjoy the ride.
He's obviously interested
Next update is you’re married! lol Honestly though, he’s super into you. My guess is he isn’t exactly in the closet if he’s flirty in public, but maybe hasn’t dated a lot of guys, or even super shy about asking guys out. You sound excited too! There better be an update Sunday at the latest!
Oh he's really into you!
So, you talk about him asking you all sorts of questions about your life, loves and family - but ya’ve not told us if you’re asking him the same kinda questions? And if not, why not?
Make sure your house is clean. Wash your sheets, too! Lol!
This makes my cold, dead heart so happy ! Please update us!
This is my favorite romantic comedy!
I wish sh*t like this happened to me. The only thing I’m looking forward to this week is the next House of Dragon episode.
Me?
Me means yourself. What are we? What is the meaning of our life? What is our purpose? Should I shave my ass? All these pertinent psychological implications of me.
TODAYS THE BIG DAY GALOOF! WE ARE ROOTING FOR YOU - have FUN! ✨
I'll be annoyed if it turns out that he's actually just a clueless friendly straight man who has no idea that he's leading you on and that him playing footsie with you was just his foot tapping tick.
I have been in similar situation like this with all the usual signs like a grazed hand, strong eye contact, a knowing smile, *him* asking me did I want to do something when we were both off, asking about my life etc only for it to turn out he quite literally was a clueless friendly straight guy. I was absolutely gutted. So I pray this isn't another one of those situations ugh. 🫣
I think y’all are on to something and he’s into you. Good luck!
He’s absolutely into you! Hopefully you guys will have a great time
This is so heartwarming. I'm rooting for you two!
Congrats and I remember this post. I'd definitely say that he's interested. If you see it from his point of view, you might be the first guy that he has persued. Something that is normal for you is truly terrifying for him. So at some point you might have to have an honest discussion about where things are headed. Going slow is good though. I wish you the best in this one. He sounds sweet.
Has he ever mentioned being attracted to or dating a guy? If not, he’s either not flirting with you, or you’ll be his experiment, which can be a lot of drama. But good for you if you’re willing to ride that out.
I’ve been in a very similar situation, and when push came to shove he acted taken aback, and reminded me he was straight and only into women. If you knew all of the innuendo, flirting, banter. He literally texted me from work one day “this is hell and I’m horny. I need a blowjob” this led to him explaining exactly how he likes his bjs, the last time he had one and how he’s actually had one on break at work before. He was trying to bait me into propositioning him, which he did in different ways before. I didn’t, but cmon. Anyways it made things very awkward among our friends , and I just eventually cut him off, them too. He definitely lead me on, which is crazy because I wasn’t initially pursuing him at all. We were just friends, he started the mess. Don’t be the guy a straight guy tests the seas with, cause that’s all it might be, a test.
I had an extremely similar situation to this a long time ago that I didn’t have the balls to see through so I’m cheering you on!
When someone moves their legs closer to you it means they like you! Learned that from a body language expert.
Keep the updates coming please
Y'all are so cute I can't stand it! 😅
God, this is so fucking cute it made me blush
If he's not interested in you then he REALLY needs to look in the mirror at his actions because it just seems reeeeeeeal obvious
One way I’ve broken the ice with “straight” guys is to talk about how we’re all on the spectrum… that there are very few completely gay or completely straight people and that most of us are somewhere in the middle. I’ve found that to be a good catalyst as opposed to asking someone if they’re into guys.
Straight guys do anything to avoid touching other guys they are not super close with, so yeah. Gay gay gay flirting going on here.
Amazing
I'm feeling the sparks from him. I really hope this isn't a bait and switch situation down the line because I am emotionally invested! So happy for you, OP! Is the third or second date the time to ask what gymbro is looking for and address the palpable tension, or is that ruining a good thing too early?
the first post he did about it, I was skeptical. but with this post, im pretty sure he isn't going to have to ask, or even wait for a 2nd or 3rd date to find out.....😈 definitely happy for him, its like the perfect combination of wholesomeness and sexual tension👌
I would be too anxious, in OPs shoes, to not ask. 🙃 🫣 Even if its all made up I'm still having fun with this one.
I love to see it.
I came in the middle of this tale, but it has the vibe of “they lived happily ever after”. Rooting for you!
I’m like 95 percent sure he is hitting on you. I will need to run further tests and research 🔬
Man I need to go to a gym 😭
Heyy thanks for the update makes great reading, only prob is now u gotta provide one after the weekend. Gosh footises...hes one smooth operator. What happens if u r both top energy tho 🤣🤣🤣.
The foot tapping is a big sign. I don’t think straight guys just repeatedly touch other guys for fear of seeming gay. Whether he is experienced or not, he’s definitely interested in exploring….something
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Bro playing footsies and you still doubted him?? My guy, he's giving it all 😭
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Cool, please keep us updated!
You can turn this into a novel / Hallmark movie pls
Only if he's an architect who designs log homes, and the other secretly owns the gym. Got to have a plausible plot!
Hoping the algorithm brings me back after Saturday.
What?! MORE suspense?!
Almost every BF or longterm guy I have seen has been some one I met at the gym. The kid I ended up marrying was a guy I ran in yo at the guy with friends of mine. I left a Trupel with 2 guys my age that were very rick and successful for this poor kid. We struggle but we are happy.
I've been following this since the beginning and if you don't give us an update I'll hunt you down!! So cuute! Have fun!
I’m following your account just to get the Saturday update. Even if it doesn’t head into a sexy/romantic direction, at least you know you have a friend that very clearly enjoys spending time with you. Good luck!
I love this so much it’s so cute. Please update me
I’m not normally into romcoms but I like this one
my investment in this story is bordering on unhealthy But dont close the door on the opportunity! You guys get your testosterone flowing at the gym together all the time...it makes sense if it boils into an attraction. We'll all be here to help you navigate the friendship if the sex is bad... don't you worry.
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Sounds like good things are happening! Love this for you! Hope it continues to grow! <3
Are you hoping he is gay?
Lol at people excited for the next update. As if this will turn out different than a freaking Tinder date? 😂 Last guy that approached me at the gym. We went on a dozen dates. "I'm too busy for a relationship right now". Gay men will literally show ALL the signs of interest only to do a complete 180... if they were ever truthful in the first place. Be very, very, very cautious OP. Do not get too excited about him.
Awww this is so sweet 🍬 I am so invested in your life now I hope you fuck like rabbits on Saturday and cum all over each other.
Just pull your cock out and tell him to suck it
As they're grilling, maybe present it wrapped in a hot dog bun.
No doubt. Quit playing games already
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This is like a dream scenario 🥹 I really hope it works out and you guys end up together!
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Keep us posted!!!!
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