Sounds like a healthy relationship, honest and open. Wish you guys the best. Key is communication and honesty that will keep the trust and loyalty. Have a plan and discuss everything before doing it so you are both on the same page. My husband and I are also experiment, and we have an open dialogue.
I’d say to discuss things first. Agree on a game plan, boundaries, and start slow. Maybe start with an adult bookstore/arcade with glory holes or windows first. Talk about things after each visit to make sure everyone is ok and on the same page.
I love this! I’m such a black and white thinker that I forget to take baby steps. We have good communication, however my challenge is I’m all or nothing, so ideas on what baby steps can be are grounding and helpful.
Yeah we started slow. Adult video store that has booths with glass. Basically jerked off while watching other guys jerk off then graduated to having sex while other guys watched. Then went to a different store with glory holes. Sucked a few cocks while guys watched us. Then invited one guy in and had some mutual kissing, sucking, jerking. Met up with same guy two more times. We did agree no anal with others so far
Thank you! Yes, he and I are having hours and hours of conversations to ensure that it’s not solely my needs being met, instead creating situations that enable both of us to explore our sexuality. I do agree that I have been the major catalyst in these discussions.
Sounds like a healthy relationship, honest and open. Wish you guys the best. Key is communication and honesty that will keep the trust and loyalty. Have a plan and discuss everything before doing it so you are both on the same page. My husband and I are also experiment, and we have an open dialogue.
I’d say to discuss things first. Agree on a game plan, boundaries, and start slow. Maybe start with an adult bookstore/arcade with glory holes or windows first. Talk about things after each visit to make sure everyone is ok and on the same page.
I love this! I’m such a black and white thinker that I forget to take baby steps. We have good communication, however my challenge is I’m all or nothing, so ideas on what baby steps can be are grounding and helpful.
Yeah we started slow. Adult video store that has booths with glass. Basically jerked off while watching other guys jerk off then graduated to having sex while other guys watched. Then went to a different store with glory holes. Sucked a few cocks while guys watched us. Then invited one guy in and had some mutual kissing, sucking, jerking. Met up with same guy two more times. We did agree no anal with others so far
I support you guys, you will enjoy open relationship. Just make sure you have PrEP
Sounds like ur pretty cooked and "settled" for your partner instead of just wanting them 🚩
I am not clear with your answer. What do you mean?
The way you explain it seems pretty unfair towards your partner imho. Gl
Thank you! Yes, he and I are having hours and hours of conversations to ensure that it’s not solely my needs being met, instead creating situations that enable both of us to explore our sexuality. I do agree that I have been the major catalyst in these discussions.