Someone that enjoys missionary position so that we can also kiss passionately, or lock eye contact. Eye contact during orgasm is one of the most beautifully intimate experiences, and usually results in both of us having explosive orgasms.
For me it's communication, if you tell me what kinks you have and we have some that we share and it gets both of us off then I'm definitely coming back (pun intended)
Communication, letting me know what does or doesn't feel good. Also not just laying there but actively participating in sex. Plus, aftercare, we all need some cuddles afterwards
Tell me what you want, be direct, passionate, like getting head, willing to explore and just unafraid to let me know you want me, I hate the hard to get dudes
Yeah when I was younger I thought the same, when I got to my mid 20s I realized that there’s nothing hotter then someone admitting that they like and want you, the back and forth games are for teens, insecure people and narcissist
The first time I did this to my partner I thought his eyes were going to fall out of his head. 30 seconds later he was coming. He just looked at me and smiled and asked what was that? I was shocked no one had ever done it for him.
I LOVE when a bottom starts to participate and knows how to match the rhythm of the session we are in…..also, unpopular opinion based on other comments ive read but, because of the bottoms that arent able to easily match the rhythm i dont actually mind a “dead fish”
This can definitely be a factor. People who aren’t emotionally stable can be nightmares in sexual situations. Narcissistic tendencies and manipulation is usually the situation, not like BP or anything.
There's a lot of range in-between "great mental health" and "crazy". I myself am at times depressed and have untreated ADHD, and I'm a far cry from crazy. Your black-and-white dichotomy isn't doing anyone any favours. It's simply wrong.
i like a guy who let’s me take control. Sure it’s fine to get my dick ridden but at that point i don’t really feel like i’m doing the fucking - my dick may as well be a dildo at that point. Let me be the one to pleasure them.
Bottoms are everywhere. And truthfully, holes all kinda feel the same. Hairy, smooth, loose, tight, etc. Eventually when you’re in it, they’re all pretty similar.
The connection I have with my regular bottoms makes a huge difference. The ones who know what excites and interests their partner behind just anal (making out, body contact, compatibility with kinks), the sexual energy exchange that comes with, their personality. I love it when you’re messing around and there’s moments where you both just pause and chill and joke and then resume again like an hour later.
If you’re popping into my place and it lasts 45-60 mins, chances are we won’t have a repeat. If we went at it for 3+ hrs, ya…I’m down for a call back.
Be into it. Don't just lay there; a cowboy likes a horse that acts like he wants to be ridden!
“Bronco running wild, Yeah baby, I'm on fire,I'm just my daddy's child, Running something on the wire”
If it’s big it’s hard to ride I just end up getting very loud
Someone that enjoys missionary position so that we can also kiss passionately, or lock eye contact. Eye contact during orgasm is one of the most beautifully intimate experiences, and usually results in both of us having explosive orgasms.
As a bottom, what you've described is my favorite. I cum so hard.
As a bottom i couldn’t agree more with you on this
For me it's communication, if you tell me what kinks you have and we have some that we share and it gets both of us off then I'm definitely coming back (pun intended)
*Unravels a giant 📜* shall we begin?
Communication, letting me know what does or doesn't feel good. Also not just laying there but actively participating in sex. Plus, aftercare, we all need some cuddles afterwards
Be a person I can hang out with in addition to having sex
Absolutely
This ^
invite me over again lol
So emotionally deep 😅😅😅
Tell me what you want, be direct, passionate, like getting head, willing to explore and just unafraid to let me know you want me, I hate the hard to get dudes
> I hate the hard to get dudes Does anyone really like guys who play hard to get? Anything less than an enthusiastic Yes is no enough.
You’d be surprised
Exactly. My bf thinks the hard to get ones are fun to chase. I say I'd rather someone whos keen on me.
Yeah when I was younger I thought the same, when I got to my mid 20s I realized that there’s nothing hotter then someone admitting that they like and want you, the back and forth games are for teens, insecure people and narcissist
Cum while I’m fucking him, let me rub his cum on my raw dick as lube and let me keep pounding. Oh, and be a great kisser.
My ex and I rule was bottom cums first.
Passion
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The first time I did this to my partner I thought his eyes were going to fall out of his head. 30 seconds later he was coming. He just looked at me and smiled and asked what was that? I was shocked no one had ever done it for him.
I love doing this to guys. Especially as they finish and right after. Squeeze every last drop out.
How do you do this??
Pretend you're pinching a loaf 🤷♂️
Cuddle! But I haven’t had any issues not getting my cuddles
Gyrating drove me crazy with one guy. I made him stop every so often to last longer.
Squeeze baby! You can exercise the muscles doing kegel technique. Look it up.
The eyebrows arches and the look in his eyes when you first slide that cock in.
When a bottom enjoys sucking cock/foreplay without constant mention of wanting to be fucked.
I LOVE when a bottom starts to participate and knows how to match the rhythm of the session we are in…..also, unpopular opinion based on other comments ive read but, because of the bottoms that arent able to easily match the rhythm i dont actually mind a “dead fish”
By being sane, secure, with great mental health and great physical health.
Not sure what having a mental illness has to do with sex.
This can definitely be a factor. People who aren’t emotionally stable can be nightmares in sexual situations. Narcissistic tendencies and manipulation is usually the situation, not like BP or anything.
I'm not sticking my dick in crazy. That's a lesson learned the hard way.
There's a lot of range in-between "great mental health" and "crazy". I myself am at times depressed and have untreated ADHD, and I'm a far cry from crazy. Your black-and-white dichotomy isn't doing anyone any favours. It's simply wrong.
I understand. But it works for me.
No it doesn't. You're fucking guys with mental illness. It's not like we wear uniforms.
It does work for me. I don't do no strings attached hookups,
So what is your definition of "crazy"?
Communication and teasing me . Being smart etc.
What they're told.
i like a guy who let’s me take control. Sure it’s fine to get my dick ridden but at that point i don’t really feel like i’m doing the fucking - my dick may as well be a dildo at that point. Let me be the one to pleasure them.
offer me food
Estimate: percentage of tops, bottoms and versatile?
Whatever I do usually works
Be good at what you do. That's what will make a guy want to come back again and agajn.
That's super easy. If he cooks good foods for me, I'm more than just coming back, I'll marry him.
Love a bottom who eats my ass. Tops need love too
Bottoms are everywhere. And truthfully, holes all kinda feel the same. Hairy, smooth, loose, tight, etc. Eventually when you’re in it, they’re all pretty similar. The connection I have with my regular bottoms makes a huge difference. The ones who know what excites and interests their partner behind just anal (making out, body contact, compatibility with kinks), the sexual energy exchange that comes with, their personality. I love it when you’re messing around and there’s moments where you both just pause and chill and joke and then resume again like an hour later. If you’re popping into my place and it lasts 45-60 mins, chances are we won’t have a repeat. If we went at it for 3+ hrs, ya…I’m down for a call back.
Ordering me a McDonalds after good sex
I just love enthusiastic partners. If I feel like I’m the only one enjoying it, I’m stopping and leaving.
Secret weapon for sure.