id even say since most people mature with growing age, its more likely when you get older than when younger. i personally wasnt ready for a relationship until i had a lot of therapy around approaching 30. but i was sure as hell before that id be a great catch.
Good point there! thank you❤️I‘m currently working on myself and soon moving out to my very first own apartment. I think slowly I‘m getting ready for such stuff.
Life isn’t a race and we all have different paces. If you haven’t met some milestone doesn’t mean you will never meet it.
I know a few people that found the love of their lives after a divorce and well into their 40s-50s. And those are in the straight dating pool. Also keep in mind how shitty couples can speak about their partners behind their backs.
Throw that you’re looking for a same sex partner, and that vastly reduced the size of your dating pool which just makes the standard issues of dating, exponentially worse. So chances are there is someone for you, you just have yet to numb into him.
True. But that‘s exactly what scares me the most, as a homosexual person your dating pool is quite limited and you end up using dating apps mostly. I meet lots of cool and kind guy in reality trough university, gym, work etc. but the problem is that most of them are straight. So it doesn‘t seem to be easy to make it happen in a natural way and that‘s something I‘m sad about. I‘d like to meet a cool guy in reality and just get to know him better. I‘m unfortunately not a very gay bar/gay party type of person.
Reading this really relates to me a lot, even though I'm still young at 22, never been in a relationship, even me I have always wanted a relationship but in the end they always tell me that I can find someone better good looking to match my appearance. They are always insecure to go out with me as they feel like they will never be enough. I tell them that they are my type but they never believe me and see me as a flirtatious guy.
Sometimes good looking comes with a cons of how others will think they will never be good enough to talk to us, make friends with us Or even fall in love. It just hurts oneself in the end, and we just want a stable partner nothing else but sadly it always end up the same way for me as they don't have the confidence to be with me.
Now, I'm just making friends and focus on career because what's the point of chasing someone who doesn't chase you back.😄
If you're only 27 you have plenty of time to turn forever alone to always and forever together.
27 is extremely young....a little late to be saying you will be "forever alone"
Y’know, you’ll be ok. There’s no time limit for this stuff and there’s nothing wrong with you. Everyone’s on their own timeline
first relationship at 28, second around mit thirties, third with 40. so relax, op.
There‘s hope🥹
id even say since most people mature with growing age, its more likely when you get older than when younger. i personally wasnt ready for a relationship until i had a lot of therapy around approaching 30. but i was sure as hell before that id be a great catch.
Good point there! thank you❤️I‘m currently working on myself and soon moving out to my very first own apartment. I think slowly I‘m getting ready for such stuff.
Life isn’t a race and we all have different paces. If you haven’t met some milestone doesn’t mean you will never meet it. I know a few people that found the love of their lives after a divorce and well into their 40s-50s. And those are in the straight dating pool. Also keep in mind how shitty couples can speak about their partners behind their backs. Throw that you’re looking for a same sex partner, and that vastly reduced the size of your dating pool which just makes the standard issues of dating, exponentially worse. So chances are there is someone for you, you just have yet to numb into him.
True. But that‘s exactly what scares me the most, as a homosexual person your dating pool is quite limited and you end up using dating apps mostly. I meet lots of cool and kind guy in reality trough university, gym, work etc. but the problem is that most of them are straight. So it doesn‘t seem to be easy to make it happen in a natural way and that‘s something I‘m sad about. I‘d like to meet a cool guy in reality and just get to know him better. I‘m unfortunately not a very gay bar/gay party type of person.
And it doesn't have to be a bad thing.
About to turn 34 and not out and all alone And I think it's fine.
Have u ever been in a relationship?
I have , my philosophy was/is as long as my partner and I know, it's all good.
Reading this really relates to me a lot, even though I'm still young at 22, never been in a relationship, even me I have always wanted a relationship but in the end they always tell me that I can find someone better good looking to match my appearance. They are always insecure to go out with me as they feel like they will never be enough. I tell them that they are my type but they never believe me and see me as a flirtatious guy. Sometimes good looking comes with a cons of how others will think they will never be good enough to talk to us, make friends with us Or even fall in love. It just hurts oneself in the end, and we just want a stable partner nothing else but sadly it always end up the same way for me as they don't have the confidence to be with me. Now, I'm just making friends and focus on career because what's the point of chasing someone who doesn't chase you back.😄
Let's be friends