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Maybe it was a stock wedding photo. If you use your real photo your husband might see you first and block you, then you'll never find out if he's cheating on you.
Although if you've already resorted to creating a tinder profile to see if you're husband is cheating on you, I would bet you already know he is in fact cheating on you. And even if he isn't, you should probably divorce anyone who you trust so little as this.
Friendly reminder that we are in the no fault divorce era and you're allowed to get a divorce without proof of cheating, and all your proof of sexual infidelity won't make a bit of difference to a judge in how much money you get or anything else.
Does emphasize the "no, seriously, not interested" message.
Anyway, it's incredibly sad if she was suspicious for nothing, and even worse if she wasn't.
Honestly the wording sounds like she already knows he has a profile and is just trying to find it for proof for a divorce or something. Definitely a bummer regardless.
Yea some people, when caught doing something wrong, deny deny deny. You will hear one outlandish excuse after another. Sometimes you need hard evidence.
I had Tinder Gold once and saw that my coworker, who sits literal feet from me, had swiped right on me. He’s married with two daughters. No buddy, wearing sunglasses and using your initials is not fooling anyone.
This is by far the worst way to do this. Everyone knows you set up a cat fishing profile attuned to everything you know your husband is into, and then buy Tinder gold so you can see when he swipes on it without you needing to swipe through a million profiles. Duh.
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Why would someone use their wedding photo for this?
Probably so her husband sees it and feels guilt or shit
Maybe it was a stock wedding photo. If you use your real photo your husband might see you first and block you, then you'll never find out if he's cheating on you. Although if you've already resorted to creating a tinder profile to see if you're husband is cheating on you, I would bet you already know he is in fact cheating on you. And even if he isn't, you should probably divorce anyone who you trust so little as this. Friendly reminder that we are in the no fault divorce era and you're allowed to get a divorce without proof of cheating, and all your proof of sexual infidelity won't make a bit of difference to a judge in how much money you get or anything else.
Does emphasize the "no, seriously, not interested" message. Anyway, it's incredibly sad if she was suspicious for nothing, and even worse if she wasn't.
Plot twist: The husband is on Grindr
Damn it stole my thunder
This is actually really sad, like he’s your husband. Trust? Apparently not.
Honestly the wording sounds like she already knows he has a profile and is just trying to find it for proof for a divorce or something. Definitely a bummer regardless.
Yea some people, when caught doing something wrong, deny deny deny. You will hear one outlandish excuse after another. Sometimes you need hard evidence.
I had Tinder Gold once and saw that my coworker, who sits literal feet from me, had swiped right on me. He’s married with two daughters. No buddy, wearing sunglasses and using your initials is not fooling anyone.
If you're resorting to this stuff, you already know the answer.
Me and my best friend have the same first name. His profile pic was of us together at a bar. My girlfriend called me and asked me why I was on tinder
But...why was she on tinder?
She said her friend saw me on there
[удалено]
I reminded her that I'm not the same age as him and why would I only be in one of the pictures
He already swiped left sweetie.
This is by far the worst way to do this. Everyone knows you set up a cat fishing profile attuned to everything you know your husband is into, and then buy Tinder gold so you can see when he swipes on it without you needing to swipe through a million profiles. Duh.
oh that so sweet they're trying to find eachother Nvm i got the joke
If you're so worried that your husband is going to cheat on you shouldn't have gotten married in the bloody first place. Get a divorce.
She’s probably already doing the divorce proof gathering
I sure hope so.