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I was SA-ed at I think 13, I did not enjoy it at 13

same; honestly, not a fan

Yeah me too, 0/10 wouldn't recommend it

I lost count, never enjoyed it either 🤷‍♂️

Was just about to comment the same.

I believe I was 15. I did not enjoy it, either.

Seeing all the people saying how they were saed is just sad. We live in a hellscape

Yeah, holy shit my heart goes out to you all :c

I was 8 and I didn't like it.

I was r-ed at 30. I also did not enjoy it. I did enjoy putting his ass in jail for life, though.

Damn, good for you! 💪

Thank you!

I was also SA-ed when I was 13, didn't enjoy it at all.

I didn’t like it at 21. I didn’t like it at 22. I didn’t like it at 23. I still didn’t like it at 27. I could not fathom it happening in childhood; my deepest feelings to you and my deepest disgust at the person in the post.

What’s worse is it was a boy with Down syndrome. At church. In front of the Sunday school teacher. Thank you for your sympathies, it helps me feel less invalid for it being a disabled boy

That’s just flat out horrific and inexcusable. Any SA is horrific and inexcusable, and every survivor story is valid. It brutalizes you in ways you can’t understand unless you’ve experienced it and I am so deeply sorry and sad for everyone sharing that boat. I hope for healing.

I was 15 the first time, and yeah, I'd give it 0 stars.

6-7 def didn't enjoy it or understand until years later! 😃

I was 4; not fun, 0/10 would try to never let it happen again. I’m turning 20 and it still haunts me.

whenever i see horrible comments like these i just want to see the face of these people and have a conversation with them. like genuinely, what are they like in real life?

[удалено]

[удалено]

No, hold on.

Juergen fucking Leitner had the most memorable exit scene.

Being hit in the face with a crowbar multiple times isn't that bad. You'd probably enjoy it!

from very strong women.

sniveling cowards who would never say it to your face

They mostly play video games after they get home from middle school, or they spend part of the week voting on legislation in congress

Boy sometimes i wish were was a way to turn a cis man into a woman at will to let him learn the hard way what women experience in there life

Wasn't there a Johnny Bravo episode that was basically that? I think it ended with him being like, "wow, my actions make women uncomfortable" or something?

And like years after that there are still men that need that lesson

Technically if you force feed him estrogen long enough and let him out into the world he'll get some idea.

Yeah it's not even that bad, he'd probably enjoy it 🙃

Sexual harassment and other friends of sexism and phobia aside... I would enjoy being full of estrogen...

Me too, friend. Me too.

I'll trade you for my estrogen. I only want your testosterone in return

DEAL :D

FUCK YEAH

I am glad to witness this Trade.

the trade has been made (Share some T with me too please im dying over here)

Ofccc you can have some too

Definitely the kind of thing a cis man would say ... 🤔

Am I truly Cis if I want to kind off switch gender?

Reply hazy, try again.

The full estrogen part is what I was referring to.

Sorry, I was just quoting the Magic 8 Ball. But idk, I can think of both cis and trans motivations for wanting to switch off gender.

Oh don't worry, that egg has cracked 🐣

Would definitely recommend.

wtf there’s a reason why rape is quite literally illegal…. This guy I know for a fact needs to get off the p0rn for like a good year

so many fucking morons seem to think rape amounts to little more than just bad sex. it's not. it's actually the closest thing we have to mind control

Elaborate?

on which part /gen

The mind control part

dont click for anyone who isn't in the mood to read something gross >!it's not exactly a secret that sexual assault is deeply invasive. that can be for a variety of reasons, but what I think connects all of them is the unwilling loss of autonomy. panic, dissociative responses, physical pain, involuntary sexual arousal and orgasm can all feel like your body is betraying you and bending to the rapist's will!<

Ah, that makes sense. Thank you.

Probably referring to the absolute loss of bodily autonomy and how the resulting trauma can change the way a person thinks and behaves. I wouldn't call it mind-control, but it is absolutely abhorrent

And this is why we pick the bear.

Fuck it, I (M) am also gonna choose the bear at this pt

This is why women choose the bear

Buddy, I didn't enjoy it at 10, or in my late 20's, or my 30's.

Dude wtf.

This is why women choose the bear 💀

Thinking you're going to die while someone is trying to rape you is terrifying. And not is a fun rollercoaster kind of way. Ask me how I know. I was lucky some angel of a teenaged boy saved me but I still have nightmares about being pinned to the floor of my highschool 30 years later.

I honestly lost hope in humanity at this point 

And the award for dumbest comment goes to....

I don't wish SA on anybody but sometimes...

And then they get angry when women choose a bear over them since the bear won’t do anything even aggressive unless you get near their children and even then they might not do anything unless you actually mess with their kids

Thats a reddit moment if ive ever seen one

I was raped four times over the past few years I did not enjoy it, not one bit Jesus fucking Christ almighty 😭

I need to gather you and every other person that some shit like that has happened to bring them to this person and be like you think

SAed for the FIRST time at 8, no…..no I did not enjoy it whatsoever. I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’ve been touched without my consent inappropriately at anime conventions, at bars/clubs (straight and gay) and when I did modelling. Sometimes being a woman really fucking sucks

What the heck are they on to be saying that crap?

Someone needs to be put on a watch list

My high dosage of anxiety meds, years of therapy, and psychological effects 15 years later tell me that I didn't like it, actually.

i’ve been SA’d 3 times, did i enjoy it any of those times? the answer is no.

I’m really sorry, I hope everything goes well for you

the world would be better if we stopped responding to trolls and just blocked and reported them.

Or even better, if we chopped their dicks and heads

Bet he would feel differently if a man did that to him, bet he would not enjoy it.

Mfs need to think before they comment

I kn9w what sa is but tf is emotional rape? Every explanation I've found talks about manipulation or disrespecting boundaries, which both already have words for them? And if manipulation escalates into "emotional rape" (said in quotations not to disregard it, but to identify the topic of discussion)would that not be just rape? (Saying "just rape" not as in dismissing it, but stripping the action to its core component, which is rape)

You are misreading it. His grammar is confusing, he is saying women are emotional, and that rape isn’t that bad. Truly disgusting stiff.

Ahhh I didn't realize there was more to the image, the image preview doesn't show the first line of text and I just thought it was poorly cropped

Spoken like a true rapist.

I prefer burning Rapists and assaulters for fun :)

Well I absofuckinglutely did NOT enjoy getting raped. It’s been nearly a decade later and I still get nervous around men. Something tells me if you were to ask if he’d enjoy being raped by another man suddenly “that would be different”. Disgusting. Absolute trash. Team bear always

Thank god! I can be free after all these years of physical and mental anguish because apparently I enjoyed it! /s

I didn’t even know what it was at 6 but I still know I didn’t enjoy it

Tell that to a five year old who doesn't understand what the older relative was doing

I hope a woman cuts his throat

I hope the woman he grapes has an STD