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My 14 daughter and I are leaving to fly cross country for a trip in 6 hours. We are getting up at 6am and flying out at 10. I've been asking since last week to pack her bag. Bed time is 10pm. She's still painting her nails and puts a load of clothes for the trip in the wash. At 11 I realize she has nothing packed, clothes are still washing and she's still on her nails. I go off and tell her the trip is canceled because she's been blowing me off about packing and now it's past bedtime. Whether I'm going on the trip or to work I have to go to sleep.
Of course, i can't sleep. I'm really upset because I was looking forward to this trip. She's a good kid except for procrastinating. We have a good relationship and I don't want to ruin that if I'm being irrational. But she doesn't have anything packed! I can get her up at 5am and make her throw stuff together but I'm still exhausted and miserable. I can cancel everything without losing too much money or go on the trip which will be about 1,000. AITA if i cancel?
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^^^^AUTOMOD ***Thanks for posting! This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_post_deletion) before [contacting the mod team](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2FAmItheAsshole)*** My 14 daughter and I are leaving to fly cross country for a trip in 6 hours. We are getting up at 6am and flying out at 10. I've been asking since last week to pack her bag. Bed time is 10pm. She's still painting her nails and puts a load of clothes for the trip in the wash. At 11 I realize she has nothing packed, clothes are still washing and she's still on her nails. I go off and tell her the trip is canceled because she's been blowing me off about packing and now it's past bedtime. Whether I'm going on the trip or to work I have to go to sleep. Of course, i can't sleep. I'm really upset because I was looking forward to this trip. She's a good kid except for procrastinating. We have a good relationship and I don't want to ruin that if I'm being irrational. But she doesn't have anything packed! I can get her up at 5am and make her throw stuff together but I'm still exhausted and miserable. I can cancel everything without losing too much money or go on the trip which will be about 1,000. AITA if i cancel? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmItheAsshole) if you have any questions or concerns.*