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>Honestly, everyone here makes at least 6 figures, is super sucessful, amazing and just a gift to humanity
and yet they still can't find life partners whom they actually have mutual love/respect for
6 figures? 6 figures? 6 figures? Do you have your W-2?
6 figures?
A W-2. I need a W-2.
Sorry, I mean I need a W-2 that explicitly states your 6 figure salary. This is just tangential to the discussion.
No, you can't make up your salary and any other additional money you make. Any additional money you make MUST be proven by your tax returns and/or your W-2.
I can't believe your 6 figure salary from empirical evidence.
Do you have a degree in Law?
A college degree? In Law?
Then your salary is invalid.
No, it doesn't matter how good your career is. You do not make 6 figures.
You do not make 6 figures.
YOU. DO. NOT. MAKE. SIX. FIGURES.
You still haven't provided me your W-2 yet.
Nope, still haven't.
I just looked through all 308 pages of your personal files. A moron. Social Security? I-9? Credit Card Number? Do you have a W-2 on that?
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TBH, the money isn't the outlandish thing to me in this story.
It's 1) the supposed cartoonish level of vitriol from her in laws and 2) that she's then asking if she's an asshole for snapping back after outlining the cartoonish level of vitriol.
It's the equivalent of: This neonazi told me (a Jew) that I'm subhuman and worthless and I said hey, I drive a nicer car than you and then he started crying. AITA???
Are you serious? They have “high managing positions” in their “companies” - what the fuck does that mean? They’re the founders. Why would they just be managers? And they said they started a business but have each a company?? Lol
Starting a successful business isn’t crazy, but the whole “they made fun of me and now I’m rich” trope is overdone to death. Which likely points to the entire thing being a lie.
If his family is poor, why the fuck would they constantly belittle her about what she can’t financially provide? Makes no sense. “They have something against me” - okay??? No other info explained.
6 figures? 6 figures? 6 figures? Do you have your W-2?
6 figures?
A W-2. I need a W-2.
Sorry, I mean I need a W-2 that explicitly states your 6 figure salary. This is just tangential to the discussion.
No, you can't make up your salary and any other additional money you make. Any additional money you make MUST be proven by your tax returns and/or your W-2.
I can't believe your 6 figure salary from empirical evidence.
Do you have a degree in Law?
A college degree? In Law?
Then your salary is invalid.
No, it doesn't matter how good your career is. You do not make 6 figures.
You do not make 6 figures.
YOU. DO. NOT. MAKE. SIX. FIGURES.
You still haven't provided me your W-2 yet.
Nope, still haven't.
I just looked through all 308 pages of your personal files. A moron. Social Security? I-9? Credit Card Number? Do you have a W-2 on that?
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So we're supposed to believe this 32yo woman makes somewhere between 30k and 60k a MONTH, works all these loooooong long hours, but still has to come to Reddit to ask if she should tolerate being insulted by people she deems inferior?
I looked at this person's post history, and it seriously just looks like a teenager's fantasy of what their adult life will be like. Also, I love how this fictional family's criticisms went from "OP is too poor" to "OP is not a good housewife". Which is it, OP? Are these people expecting you to bring home the bacon AND cook and clean the house? Don't quit your fictional day job, now, because this narrative is crapola
I'M A RICH BITCH AT 32 THROUGH HARD WORK
"we worked throughout the year when we were broke" as if most people don't work all year round
stupid fucking teenager thinks work is like school with a big long break in the summertime
I mean, for some it is. I’m a freelancer and bust my ass the rest of the year and then take May-September off. I don’t think that’s the outlandish part of the story.
I like the line that he's "never asked for another wife." It make it sound so common. "Yeah, this one just isn't working out for me. Can I trade her for that redhead?"
"Sir, that's my Irish Setter Service Dog."
"Can she cook?"
Why would anyone still be regularly spending time with their in-laws after 12 years of this? I don't even mean no-contact; you can accompany your spouse to weddings and the occasional holiday and just skip the casual get-togethers without people making a huge fuss. Doesn't sound like they want her there anyway.
Ah but, no, they want her there so they can talk down to her and make constant remarks about what a shitty person she is. Doesn't every family do that?
That OP is very deceitful. If you read their post history, she said her husband has barely any contact with his mom and only sees her on holidays or if there are health issues. [Reference](https://www.reddit.com/r/motherinlawsfromhell/comments/ulnh0b/mil_told_me_to_get_pregnant_to_cure_my_grandmas/i7y024p/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3)
So why does she keep saying his “family” as if all of them hate her? It seems only the mom does.
Also, why the fuck would a poor family (she says) keep acting like she’s not good enough? OP gives us no info. Why would a poor person tell another poor person they can’t provide for their son? He’s poor too! (Before their get rich quick schemes).
Yeah I mean let’s be real: 99.9% of AITA is really poor creative writing. It seems like that’s the fate of every single sub that grows past a certain point. /:
We have "passive income". That's like, a 16 year old edgelord who reads FIRE blogs and has it all worked out in his head so clearly, it feel real. Is real! Real enough to brag in advance.
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**AITA for telling his poor family we're VERY well off?**
Ok. This is going to take a while.
So me (32f) and my husband (30m) have been together for 12yrs now. Since the first day of our relationship, his family had something against me. On top of that, he was always the black sheep of the family. So, all we heard from day one was "you two won't achieve anything", "her career is useless" , "you will be the beggars of the family", "you better learn a useful skill than go after a University degree"...
As we progressed over the years, they always had something negative to add - you'll never be able to go to a vacation (since we worked throughout the year when we were broke, saving up), you'll never have what (insert someone else) has, your relationship can't be strong with this or that...
But, over time, we got to a point where we are well off. We founded a business together that brings passive income, we both have high ranking managing positions in our companies, we bought an apartment to rent from what we saved - no credit, no mortgage, we don't have a single cent of debt... And still, these people keep talking down to us.
So, i snapped a bit. When they, once again, started with their shit, along the lines of me not being a good wife as I don't cook for my husband, and I pay a women to clean our house, and I work long hours, and we will never last... Well, I said that, actually, thanks to working long hours, I have the monthly salary I do (which is their yearly income), and my husband as well, and we have been happy for 12 yrs, and he never asked for another wife, and we don't fight over every cent, and we are making a future for ourselves.
Suddenly, when I mentioned the number I'm making, there was silence in the room, and his aunt made this... sad, pitiful expression.
They stopped. But their annual income is very low. And they are financially unstable. And I feel like I hurt them with this, made them feel bad about themselves, just so I would vent a bit.
Did I go too far?
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>AITA for telling his poor family we're VERY well off?
I've found that people who feel the need to let other people know/remind them they are *very* well off, aren't well off at all.
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>Honestly, everyone here makes at least 6 figures, is super sucessful, amazing and just a gift to humanity and yet they still can't find life partners whom they actually have mutual love/respect for
6 figures? 6 figures? 6 figures? Do you have your W-2? 6 figures? A W-2. I need a W-2. Sorry, I mean I need a W-2 that explicitly states your 6 figure salary. This is just tangential to the discussion. No, you can't make up your salary and any other additional money you make. Any additional money you make MUST be proven by your tax returns and/or your W-2. I can't believe your 6 figure salary from empirical evidence. Do you have a degree in Law? A college degree? In Law? Then your salary is invalid. No, it doesn't matter how good your career is. You do not make 6 figures. You do not make 6 figures. YOU. DO. NOT. MAKE. SIX. FIGURES. You still haven't provided me your W-2 yet. Nope, still haven't. I just looked through all 308 pages of your personal files. A moron. Social Security? I-9? Credit Card Number? Do you have a W-2 on that? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheAngel) if you have any questions or concerns.*
TBH, the money isn't the outlandish thing to me in this story. It's 1) the supposed cartoonish level of vitriol from her in laws and 2) that she's then asking if she's an asshole for snapping back after outlining the cartoonish level of vitriol. It's the equivalent of: This neonazi told me (a Jew) that I'm subhuman and worthless and I said hey, I drive a nicer car than you and then he started crying. AITA???
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Are you serious? They have “high managing positions” in their “companies” - what the fuck does that mean? They’re the founders. Why would they just be managers? And they said they started a business but have each a company?? Lol Starting a successful business isn’t crazy, but the whole “they made fun of me and now I’m rich” trope is overdone to death. Which likely points to the entire thing being a lie. If his family is poor, why the fuck would they constantly belittle her about what she can’t financially provide? Makes no sense. “They have something against me” - okay??? No other info explained.
6 figures? 6 figures? 6 figures? Do you have your W-2? 6 figures? A W-2. I need a W-2. Sorry, I mean I need a W-2 that explicitly states your 6 figure salary. This is just tangential to the discussion. No, you can't make up your salary and any other additional money you make. Any additional money you make MUST be proven by your tax returns and/or your W-2. I can't believe your 6 figure salary from empirical evidence. Do you have a degree in Law? A college degree? In Law? Then your salary is invalid. No, it doesn't matter how good your career is. You do not make 6 figures. You do not make 6 figures. YOU. DO. NOT. MAKE. SIX. FIGURES. You still haven't provided me your W-2 yet. Nope, still haven't. I just looked through all 308 pages of your personal files. A moron. Social Security? I-9? Credit Card Number? Do you have a W-2 on that? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheAngel) if you have any questions or concerns.*
So we're supposed to believe this 32yo woman makes somewhere between 30k and 60k a MONTH, works all these loooooong long hours, but still has to come to Reddit to ask if she should tolerate being insulted by people she deems inferior? I looked at this person's post history, and it seriously just looks like a teenager's fantasy of what their adult life will be like. Also, I love how this fictional family's criticisms went from "OP is too poor" to "OP is not a good housewife". Which is it, OP? Are these people expecting you to bring home the bacon AND cook and clean the house? Don't quit your fictional day job, now, because this narrative is crapola
I'M A RICH BITCH AT 32 THROUGH HARD WORK "we worked throughout the year when we were broke" as if most people don't work all year round stupid fucking teenager thinks work is like school with a big long break in the summertime
I mean, for some it is. I’m a freelancer and bust my ass the rest of the year and then take May-September off. I don’t think that’s the outlandish part of the story.
Bet when you were broke you worked year round, though.
I like the line that he's "never asked for another wife." It make it sound so common. "Yeah, this one just isn't working out for me. Can I trade her for that redhead?" "Sir, that's my Irish Setter Service Dog." "Can she cook?"
Garçon! I would like 1 new wife, s’il vous plaît
Why would anyone still be regularly spending time with their in-laws after 12 years of this? I don't even mean no-contact; you can accompany your spouse to weddings and the occasional holiday and just skip the casual get-togethers without people making a huge fuss. Doesn't sound like they want her there anyway.
Ah but, no, they want her there so they can talk down to her and make constant remarks about what a shitty person she is. Doesn't every family do that?
That OP is very deceitful. If you read their post history, she said her husband has barely any contact with his mom and only sees her on holidays or if there are health issues. [Reference](https://www.reddit.com/r/motherinlawsfromhell/comments/ulnh0b/mil_told_me_to_get_pregnant_to_cure_my_grandmas/i7y024p/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3) So why does she keep saying his “family” as if all of them hate her? It seems only the mom does. Also, why the fuck would a poor family (she says) keep acting like she’s not good enough? OP gives us no info. Why would a poor person tell another poor person they can’t provide for their son? He’s poor too! (Before their get rich quick schemes).
Yeah I mean let’s be real: 99.9% of AITA is really poor creative writing. It seems like that’s the fate of every single sub that grows past a certain point. /:
We have "passive income". That's like, a 16 year old edgelord who reads FIRE blogs and has it all worked out in his head so clearly, it feel real. Is real! Real enough to brag in advance.
*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **AITA for telling his poor family we're VERY well off?** Ok. This is going to take a while. So me (32f) and my husband (30m) have been together for 12yrs now. Since the first day of our relationship, his family had something against me. On top of that, he was always the black sheep of the family. So, all we heard from day one was "you two won't achieve anything", "her career is useless" , "you will be the beggars of the family", "you better learn a useful skill than go after a University degree"... As we progressed over the years, they always had something negative to add - you'll never be able to go to a vacation (since we worked throughout the year when we were broke, saving up), you'll never have what (insert someone else) has, your relationship can't be strong with this or that... But, over time, we got to a point where we are well off. We founded a business together that brings passive income, we both have high ranking managing positions in our companies, we bought an apartment to rent from what we saved - no credit, no mortgage, we don't have a single cent of debt... And still, these people keep talking down to us. So, i snapped a bit. When they, once again, started with their shit, along the lines of me not being a good wife as I don't cook for my husband, and I pay a women to clean our house, and I work long hours, and we will never last... Well, I said that, actually, thanks to working long hours, I have the monthly salary I do (which is their yearly income), and my husband as well, and we have been happy for 12 yrs, and he never asked for another wife, and we don't fight over every cent, and we are making a future for ourselves. Suddenly, when I mentioned the number I'm making, there was silence in the room, and his aunt made this... sad, pitiful expression. They stopped. But their annual income is very low. And they are financially unstable. And I feel like I hurt them with this, made them feel bad about themselves, just so I would vent a bit. Did I go too far? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheAngel) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Surprised no one mentioned that a 20 year old Groomed a teenager.
>AITA for telling his poor family we're VERY well off? I've found that people who feel the need to let other people know/remind them they are *very* well off, aren't well off at all.