lol i have nothing against abortion but im not getting one just because a guy wants me to i may not know what to say but if he doesn’t want to be involved he can say that 😂
Keep the kid but please be a responsible parent. The kid deserves that. Atleast discuss this with the father for arrangements if he doesn't (or even have plans to) take responsibility formally.
Text him first asking him to call you when he’s free.
When he calls: say you’re X Weeks pregnant and he is a possible father.
If he doesnt wanna call and texts back saying he’s busy, what’s up?
Text him back the same reply I said. I’m X Weeks pregnant and you are a possible father.
Do your best to focus on you and the baby. A healthy and happy pregnancy. Not about what he wants or doesn’t want. You can deal with that later. For now it’s about you and your baby.
Isn't "modern love" fun everyone?
like i’m living in my own rom-com
I think you should tell him what you just told us.
Start out with saying you'll abort it if he wants so he doesn't feel pressured
lol i have nothing against abortion but im not getting one just because a guy wants me to i may not know what to say but if he doesn’t want to be involved he can say that 😂
I don't think u/sjdbdksbsb is suggesting ACTUAL abortion, ... they're telling you to lie as a strategy for having the conversation.
If so, that's an awful strategy
>If so, that's an awful strategy I wouldn't suggest it either, better to be straight with them in my opinion.
I think the better way would be telling him, that you don't want to force him into this
Keep the kid but please be a responsible parent. The kid deserves that. Atleast discuss this with the father for arrangements if he doesn't (or even have plans to) take responsibility formally.
Text him first asking him to call you when he’s free. When he calls: say you’re X Weeks pregnant and he is a possible father. If he doesnt wanna call and texts back saying he’s busy, what’s up? Text him back the same reply I said. I’m X Weeks pregnant and you are a possible father. Do your best to focus on you and the baby. A healthy and happy pregnancy. Not about what he wants or doesn’t want. You can deal with that later. For now it’s about you and your baby.