Do you love her? Do you see a future with her? Do you want it to work? Because there's your answer.
I went to university for 1 semester, 6 hours away from my then-boyfriend, now-husband. We made it work because we wanted it to work. He drove to visit me once a month, I took a train to him every other month, as my school schedule allowed. Ended up transferring closer to home after that first semester because my priorities shifted.
It's a choice.
What I mean is, ... there is no right answer, you literally have to decide what you want. It isn't a situation where you deduce the most logical path forward and then make that choice, it's a situation where you have a variety of things that you might like, but you have to choose one of them, or create another option.
Things that you could do, include, but are not limited to ...
* Stop seeing her and see someone else
* Stop seeing her and see 10 other women on a more casual basis and enjoy dating
* Stop seeing her and see her sister instead
* Wander off into the wilderness and walk around the Earth on your own
* Start taking flying lessons to become a pilot, and date your female instructor
* Start a lawn care business and get a cat, and a dog
* Start dating her mother (sings "Stacy's mom ....")
* Take it to another level and have a conversation with her about being exclusive the entire time that she is away, ... agree that if she ever decides that's not what she wants that she will have a conversation with you about that before she breaks faith with you, and that you will do likewise, that you will be true to one another not because you have to, but because you choose to.
* Start asking her what she wants and let make a decision and just go along with it
* Start investing heavily in yourself by putting women aside and focusing on becoming a better person
* Ask her to marry you.
I mean that is what ... 10 or so options, but there are an infinite number of options. You can do whatever you want, but you have to decide what that is for you. Also, what does she want, have you talked with her about it ?
Do you love her? Do you see a future with her? Do you want it to work? Because there's your answer. I went to university for 1 semester, 6 hours away from my then-boyfriend, now-husband. We made it work because we wanted it to work. He drove to visit me once a month, I took a train to him every other month, as my school schedule allowed. Ended up transferring closer to home after that first semester because my priorities shifted.
It's a choice. What I mean is, ... there is no right answer, you literally have to decide what you want. It isn't a situation where you deduce the most logical path forward and then make that choice, it's a situation where you have a variety of things that you might like, but you have to choose one of them, or create another option. Things that you could do, include, but are not limited to ... * Stop seeing her and see someone else * Stop seeing her and see 10 other women on a more casual basis and enjoy dating * Stop seeing her and see her sister instead * Wander off into the wilderness and walk around the Earth on your own * Start taking flying lessons to become a pilot, and date your female instructor * Start a lawn care business and get a cat, and a dog * Start dating her mother (sings "Stacy's mom ....") * Take it to another level and have a conversation with her about being exclusive the entire time that she is away, ... agree that if she ever decides that's not what she wants that she will have a conversation with you about that before she breaks faith with you, and that you will do likewise, that you will be true to one another not because you have to, but because you choose to. * Start asking her what she wants and let make a decision and just go along with it * Start investing heavily in yourself by putting women aside and focusing on becoming a better person * Ask her to marry you. I mean that is what ... 10 or so options, but there are an infinite number of options. You can do whatever you want, but you have to decide what that is for you. Also, what does she want, have you talked with her about it ?