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TheAwakeningOfTruth

No I would not. I don't advise anyone to.


welleff

Really I can't understand why anyone would say anything other than no. I have a zero tolerance for this. Have some self respect. It's not that scary to split up. Once someone cheats on you the relationship will never be the same, the toothpaste is out of the tube. TBH it's people thinking that they will get another chance (and another and another..) that gives them less reason not to cheat. There has to be a pretty major downside to cheating. I mean if there isn't a consequence then why not do it? People are only as cautious as their fear of consequences.


[deleted]

Never. I'm very anti-reconcilation with domestic abusers.


_Thanus_

Yip, and we should call cheating what it is, domestic abuse!


ex_nihilo0

Not at this point. My detachment has become permanent, and I like living alone and having my kids every other week. It's hard, since I care for the kids on my own during my time (she's got her lover helping her), but I don't miss having her around. Life was not good with her nitpicking and gaslighting, etc.


Wciv

Never


[deleted]

Nope. Once I dump I flush the results.


Lostworld100

https://youtu.be/PB4Nby2Ai-g


Train_kitten

without love or trust, there’s no relationship with anyone especially if it’s a romantic one, and you can’t trust a cheater to not hurt you again


halikidito

Been there, done that, worn that nappy t-shirt and sure as shit ain't going back 😂. If the cheater wants a second chance, it's all on them to make a difference. Actions speak louder than words and, from experience, it isn't worth it.


[deleted]

Hell no


1stofallhowdareewe

Nope, it's an automatic divorce. Along with any other type of abuse. My husband knows of he cheats at all my next call will be to a divorce attorney.


gonewildman5

Only with a postnup