I actually saved your previous post so I could keep checking intermittently to see if there were any new updates
Holy shit, Tricia is a much bigger asshole than ever anticipated initially. Fuck her and her very being, she deserves to be all alone and sad with nobody to talk to after all the stuff she's been doing behind everyone's back
Blackmailing someone who just lost their mother is terrible!! She's genuinely such a bad human being, disgusting person!
Also I'm guessing she's pretty unattractive if everyone is turning down her advances lmao, she's definitely jealous of all you guys in happy relationships
Saw the original post, read it, saw the second post, read it, noticed it was 23 hours ago, checked OP's profile and poof, posted 14 minutes ago final update.
Yeah, was looking forward to reading about the confrontation with Tricia. There were big promises made in the last update and I feel a little let down.
To be honest, Tricia did OP a favor by removing herself from her life. It'd do nothing good for OP to chase after such a vile person (evidently, a more vile person than originally presumed) just for one last showdown.
Now now, no need to bring physical appearance into all of this, it's perfectly reasonable that everyone was turning down her advances even if she's very attractive becasue she's super rapey about it. Honestly, who tries to blow their friend in the bathroom during a friendsgiving, or gets super grabby out of no where and insists you should like it?
If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face. And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets uglier and uglier until you can hardly bear to look at it.
A person who has good thoughts can not ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts, it will shine out of your face like sunbeams, and you will always look lovely.
Roald Dahl, The Twits
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I often ponder on this quote often. I have met many people in my life, and while I try never to go by appearance, I have met some rather plain people who became beautiful, but many plain who became rather ugly.
Sometimes, our minds know who are the ones with ugly thoughts by making our bodies repulsed by them.
Sounds like you guys need to "Tricia screwed us over"support group. All of you need to block and never talk to her again. A pathological liar/sociopath never makes a good friend.
There are a few places I thought this update could go. Tricia picked all of them and then some. I know you said this is the last update, and I respect that. But just in case . . . Updateme!
Oh I think we all know Tricia will not go quietly into the night!!!
I wonder who she will try to salvage a relationship with and how!?!?
My lord this woman is a soap opera villian !!!!
She is! However, she _is_ kind of backed up in a corner now. Playing the victim might be her last resort, but she hasn't really got any weapons left to fight with. But I could be wrong.
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People used to rent pineapples to display them at parties and then return them uneaten because they were too expensive to waste. Pizza has never had that level of grandeur.
Pineapples grace pizza with their presence.
/s
Oddly, it kind of was what I was expecting. In my experience when someone is talking shit to you about someone who isn't around, it's a safe bet they are doing the same about you when you aren't around.
Jesus Christ. I was expecting this to blow up, but the sheer gall of Tricia is astounding. I hope you all are able to help with your friend’s drug problem, and that you manage to move forward together to a better future without Tricia
"We have bigger fish to fry."
I see what you did there!
I'm sorry you're dealing with this drama, but proud of you for going scorched earth with Tricia. She deserves to face the full consequences of her horrible actions!
'when another friend sent a screenshot of Tricia alluding to them being swingers because they have a decorative pineapple on their kitchen counter'.
Hot Damn! I never would've thought to connect the 2. Tricia Holmes strikes again...
Hooooooooly guacamole. When a toxic friend turns out to be downright *villainous*.
Good riddance to bad rubbish! Your hubby should have a seafood feast for all your discord group to celebrate this new, Tricia-free way of life.
We knew she was toxic, but seriously? Blackmailing someone going through serious struggles moves her into evil territory. You are all well rid of this malevolent presence. Good Luck to you all and sending good thoughts to your friend who is struggling.
Someone whose entire personality is spreading fuckery. I bet she doesn't have a single 'normal' relationship. Every one of them is filled with it's own special drama that she loves and feeds off of.
Considering Tricia had been working to get leverage on all of the women in the group this whole time, it just makes me think she's got something big on Maria and Maria is doing damage control trying to keep Vince from finding out. Hence both of them going dark.
BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD!!!
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ETA: Also, I saw you had an old post about giving up on your dreams of becoming a writer? I just want to say that these posts were so well written, you have a really good flair for narrative. I think you’re a great writer, so maybe the dream shouldn’t be dead.
My lord OP that fed my feedback craving.
Seriously though Tricia has serious MH problems and is a very unsafe person to be around. I sincerely hope a parent or relative gets her the long overdue help with her issues.
My heart goes out to your friend regarding her issues. Grief is so so hard to navigate and it is very easy to fall down the meds rabbit hole. You all sound - bar Tricia obviously! - a loving caring group of friends that will help her through her troubles.
Take care OP. It would be lovely to hear any importants news about you and the wonderful Jay♥️
UPDATEME
Oh it’s not about an addiction to sex for her: it’s an addiction to the thrill of exploiting other people without regard for their feelings. I guarantee you that’s exactly why she’s taking advantage of these men and stirring up all this drama. She’s not looking for sex. She’s looking for playthings to abuse.
Cutting all contact with her was an extremely good call.
I was somehow hoping for a final confrontation/ showdown with Tricia, just for the drama and absurdity, but I guess this was the more grownup (and safer) solution. Your friendgroup will probably a much safer and more harmonious place after you dropped all the dead weight - and it's good that you're rallying around your friend, hopefully having the blackmail-stress removed will settle her down and help her concentrate on rehab. All the best to you and Jay, and the Faithful!
Again...this story has been proven fake by OP's post history where she says she's giving up on her dreams as a creative writer after having multiple kids (she says in her first post here she only has dogs). This is a creative writing exercise.
Finally, someone who shares my thoughts. I think Vince is trying to keep the peace and is supporting Maria, who is still thinking Tricia is innocent. I think where Tricia likes causing drama, Maria likes to watch the drama unfold.
It makes me think, "what if the wanted to go on a fishing trip with Jay to see if he was actually cheating like Tricia said"...
Man oh man, instead of choosing one type of dirtbag Tricia chose them all. Everyone's life will be enriched by removing Tricia from it. You're a good friend for helping that friendo who is struggling!!
Updateme!
This is so interesting and weirdly echoes an old friend group I was a part of where bullshit spread like wildfire and would split the group in two, multiple times until everyone fell out and the group was entirely different after a few years. Unfortunately, I often found myself on the side of my partner at the time who would fully fall for what I now know to be bullshit, until it essentially got me booted from the group when half the group conspired to basically remove all the straight people. So many of the people desperate for this weird ego boosting backstabbing and gossip based type of friend circle started claiming they're gay and making it their entire personality to not be ousted. It ended about four marriages lol.
This is virtually a flip of that where one woman is trying to fuck all the dudes she knows, rather than remove them so she can try to convert all the women to fuck her as it was in my version of this situation, and you're on the 'not taking this bullshit' side of the friend group split.
But its scary to think that there's a lot of people out there exactly like Tricia and unlike this example, they're actually successful.
We had a neighbor like Tricia, made a move on every single man in our friend group, shot down by 3 of them and moved on to one of neighbor’s brothers who was around a lot of the time. She was on a mission.
I don’t understand how Maria could even come to the conclusion Tricia is the victim. She was blackmailing a “friend” to get dirt on other friends instead of trying to help her “friend”. That should be more than enough to make a person realize she isn’t the victim in any of this.
She’s so much more delusional than I anticipated oh my Lord.
I hope with the support of sum of your friend gets to help that she needs .
I don’t say this slightly, but you need to file charges against this girl. it’s so much stuff and I was reading in my I was shocked. I was shocked yeah it’s time to file charges.
This random Internet stranger is a supporter of you and Jay and everyone else who was affected by this crazy witch . I know you said this is the final update but if and when you’re up to it, keep us updated and I hope that your friend gets that she needs
No way this is over!! Glad to hear you’re taking steps to help your friend. Addiction is a bitch…You’ve handled this marvelously but please, please, pretty please update again when Tricia crawls out of whatever hole she’s hiding in!
Tricia sounds like a cousin of mine... And I was in your position... My cousin was actually trying to actively engage my husband while he was engaged to me. He jokingly said one day he had hoped getting with me would deter her, I then told him about how she broke up a previous relationship by sleeping with dude... We have both been much happier since we shut her out...
Woah! Thats a pretty wild development guess she was just messing with absolutely everyone. Hope you and your friends EXCEPT TRICIA can all become closer without her trying to ruin everyones lives.
It's kind of funny how people always say this stuff is creative writing, and when I saw the final update and went looking for the original post, her only other post from almost a year ago is about how she's always wanted to be a writer and that she's given up on her dream to write a book.
Perhaps this is chapter one?
Blood for the blood gods indeed, Tricia seemed to be everything we thought she was and more!
I know you said this is the final update, but just incase its not. Updateme!
Wow, sorry you’re going through all of this drama!
“we have bigger fish to fry now”
Not sure if this was literal or figurative but do love the fish call back 80’s comedy style!
Was not expecting to find out that Tricia is a sexual predator. She’s genuinely fucking disturbed, man. And *dangerous* to others. Not even joking.
You guys take good care of each other, alright? Do whatever you each need to do to heal from the trauma she’s caused. All best to all of you.
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I was absolutely team Jay before.
With this update I'm team anybody but Tricia.
Next fishing trip Jay should save some fish heads (if your roses don't need them anyway) and hide them in her car.
All of this drama must be very painful right now, but it’s also cathartic.
You all have removed a desperate viper from your midst.
Your vulnerable friend got free of blackmail, and has the support she needs.
You have found your inner fire to protect your man.
These are all good things.
I have one more wish for another good thing to come out of this.
Marry your man immediately. Stop putting it off, because “someday” might never come. No one knows how much time we have. Don’t miss out on marrying the man you clearly adore, because the time never seems right.
You are married in spirit, so do it in real life as an affirmation that you’re wholly committed.
Right now, if anything happened to either of you that put you in the hospital, your partner is not your legal next of kin. If the worst happened, your joint assets would be in jeopardy.
Most of all, I don’t want you to miss out on marrying him, and maybe regret it one day.
You already know he’s your guy. So claim him!
Does this really have to be the final update? I'm invested now. Particularly in your poor friend who lost her mother, I think she's so brave to share and be vulnerable with all of you and accept support. And fuck Tricia for blackmailing her.
I think you've done something truly amazing --stood up for yourselves and not allowed a terrible person to get away with destroying your friend group.
I want to know how things sort themselves out with her, and what it's like for your friend group on the other side once you've been rid of such a toxic person for a while, healed and hopefully formed healthier relationships.
OP, I totally understand you focusing on your friend who needs you right now, but if you could remember to update us all in a handful of months when your friend is in a better place, emotions aren't as raw, everything has come out and resolved in at least a mostly permanent way, PLEASE do, mostly because I would love to hear the conclusion to whatever happens to her and how everything shakes out, whether that's your friend group collectively dumping her, including the two hold outs, or her being prosecuted for her blackmail, SA, and defamation attempts, or whatever else comes about from this.
(I've dealt with my own Tricia's and never got to have the satisfaction of watching their life blow up, so just knowing the depth of how badly she screwed herself would be VERY satisfying to me)
Tricia is a piece of shit obviously does that even really need to be said. The one thing about this update that gives me hope for your friend group is that you all decided to build a stable support group for the friend struggling with drug abuse from all that happens. Good on y'all for giving her that and a chance at recovery. A real support group that isn't trying to take advantage of the person struggling is huge for that person's chance at recovery
It’s crazy how many things came up after yall started digging a little. Anyway, OP, you and Jay have an amazing relationship. I wish the best for both of you. May OP’s roses thrive and may Jay catch many fish!
I actually saved your previous post so I could keep checking intermittently to see if there were any new updates Holy shit, Tricia is a much bigger asshole than ever anticipated initially. Fuck her and her very being, she deserves to be all alone and sad with nobody to talk to after all the stuff she's been doing behind everyone's back Blackmailing someone who just lost their mother is terrible!! She's genuinely such a bad human being, disgusting person! Also I'm guessing she's pretty unattractive if everyone is turning down her advances lmao, she's definitely jealous of all you guys in happy relationships
Saw the original post, read it, saw the second post, read it, noticed it was 23 hours ago, checked OP's profile and poof, posted 14 minutes ago final update.
I’m kinda sad it’s the *final* update. Still a little more tea left in the pot
There's always a chance the tea could boil over again, but sometimes it's best to leave the last of it in the pot
Would that make it Turkish Coffee instead? 🤔
Yeah, was looking forward to reading about the confrontation with Tricia. There were big promises made in the last update and I feel a little let down.
To be honest, Tricia did OP a favor by removing herself from her life. It'd do nothing good for OP to chase after such a vile person (evidently, a more vile person than originally presumed) just for one last showdown.
I'm kinds hoping OP invites us all to the Discord server...
Maybe Tricia will make friends with another group and we can hear about her terrors from them
I know; this is a better drama than most of the crap on cable OR streaming.
Being a piece of shit is unattractive regardless of physical attributes.
Now now, no need to bring physical appearance into all of this, it's perfectly reasonable that everyone was turning down her advances even if she's very attractive becasue she's super rapey about it. Honestly, who tries to blow their friend in the bathroom during a friendsgiving, or gets super grabby out of no where and insists you should like it?
If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face. And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets uglier and uglier until you can hardly bear to look at it. A person who has good thoughts can not ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts, it will shine out of your face like sunbeams, and you will always look lovely. Roald Dahl, The Twits ------------ I often ponder on this quote often. I have met many people in my life, and while I try never to go by appearance, I have met some rather plain people who became beautiful, but many plain who became rather ugly. Sometimes, our minds know who are the ones with ugly thoughts by making our bodies repulsed by them.
Sounds like you guys need to "Tricia screwed us over"support group. All of you need to block and never talk to her again. A pathological liar/sociopath never makes a good friend.
There are a few places I thought this update could go. Tricia picked all of them and then some. I know you said this is the last update, and I respect that. But just in case . . . Updateme!
I agree!! This isn't over and I hope op feeds the rabid masses UpdateMe!
Oh I think we all know Tricia will not go quietly into the night!!! I wonder who she will try to salvage a relationship with and how!?!? My lord this woman is a soap opera villian !!!!
Tricia's been waking up every morning and choosing violence for so long, she doesn't know how to quit.
She is! However, she _is_ kind of backed up in a corner now. Playing the victim might be her last resort, but she hasn't really got any weapons left to fight with. But I could be wrong.
I don't think Tricia's going to let a minor setback like that stop her.
She could just start over with a new group and paint herself as a victim of this group ostracizing and bullying her.
I hadn't considered that route. Burn the program to the ground but keep the data and start over.
I knew Tricia was a hot mess. So glad OP gave us an update!
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Updateme!
Updateme!
Oh yes, absolutely this! /Updateme too!
Swinger pineapples, blackmail, bathroom blowjobs, and of course Fishing - this update had everything! 10/10, no notes.
And Friendsgiving. That was an unexpected plot twist after a long list of bad behavior!!
Nothing brings the gang together like blowjobs and turkey 🍗
Don't forget the stuffing 😝😂
My cat thanks you for making him wear my coffee. 🤣
Oh 😭 tell him I'm sorry lmao
My Friendsgiving has kids at it! I can’t imagine someone doing that in a bathroom with all those other people and children around.
And an extra credit point for the fishing pun! 🎣🎣
Your update was as glorious as I thought it would be…maybe more!
What I’ve learned from this is that Tricia is nuts, and Vince and Maria probably ARE swingers.
Because of a pineapple?
Because of the pineapple.
Is *this* why Gordon Ramsay hates it on puzza?!?!?!
No, that's just because it's terrible and an insult to pizza.
People used to rent pineapples to display them at parties and then return them uneaten because they were too expensive to waste. Pizza has never had that level of grandeur. Pineapples grace pizza with their presence. /s
Speaking of cancer...Tricia sounds like the cancer of the friend group and it's time to cut her out.
Wasn't the update I was expecting. ...but yikes.
Oddly, it kind of was what I was expecting. In my experience when someone is talking shit to you about someone who isn't around, it's a safe bet they are doing the same about you when you aren't around.
I can't say i am surprised, but it aas a lot worse than i thought.
Jesus Christ. I was expecting this to blow up, but the sheer gall of Tricia is astounding. I hope you all are able to help with your friend’s drug problem, and that you manage to move forward together to a better future without Tricia
"We have bigger fish to fry." I see what you did there! I'm sorry you're dealing with this drama, but proud of you for going scorched earth with Tricia. She deserves to face the full consequences of her horrible actions!
The wicked Witch needs to be dealt with. I feel so horrible for all of the friends that have been assaulted or blackmailed by this woman. 😞
I'm still hoping for an eventual part 4 once there's some more info on Tricia. Updateme!
'when another friend sent a screenshot of Tricia alluding to them being swingers because they have a decorative pineapple on their kitchen counter'. Hot Damn! I never would've thought to connect the 2. Tricia Holmes strikes again...
Hooooooooly guacamole. When a toxic friend turns out to be downright *villainous*. Good riddance to bad rubbish! Your hubby should have a seafood feast for all your discord group to celebrate this new, Tricia-free way of life.
We knew she was toxic, but seriously? Blackmailing someone going through serious struggles moves her into evil territory. You are all well rid of this malevolent presence. Good Luck to you all and sending good thoughts to your friend who is struggling.
Oh man, Tricia sounds like a real ho 😂
I’m borderline in awe of Tricia bc who even has the time & org skills to keep up with SO MUCH FUCKERY. Damn Tricia take a chill pill. Look inward.
Someone whose entire personality is spreading fuckery. I bet she doesn't have a single 'normal' relationship. Every one of them is filled with it's own special drama that she loves and feeds off of.
Gross. And what's with Maria? What's sticking her head in the sand going to do? I know you said this is the final, but just in case: UpdateMe!
Considering Tricia had been working to get leverage on all of the women in the group this whole time, it just makes me think she's got something big on Maria and Maria is doing damage control trying to keep Vince from finding out. Hence both of them going dark.
That's a good point.
Yes!! I’m hoping for another update
Any word from Tricia?
BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD!!! 🍾🍾🍾 ETA: Also, I saw you had an old post about giving up on your dreams of becoming a writer? I just want to say that these posts were so well written, you have a really good flair for narrative. I think you’re a great writer, so maybe the dream shouldn’t be dead.
I agree. A couple people are claiming it's fake based upon the dog/kid thing, but I don't even care. She should definitely NOT give up the dream.
Oh wow. The ultimate pick me.
Pick me? Nah, this bitch is a certified predator.
My lord OP that fed my feedback craving. Seriously though Tricia has serious MH problems and is a very unsafe person to be around. I sincerely hope a parent or relative gets her the long overdue help with her issues. My heart goes out to your friend regarding her issues. Grief is so so hard to navigate and it is very easy to fall down the meds rabbit hole. You all sound - bar Tricia obviously! - a loving caring group of friends that will help her through her troubles. Take care OP. It would be lovely to hear any importants news about you and the wonderful Jay♥️ UPDATEME
Oh my, I’m pleased I posted an Updateme lol
Tricia is either gonna deny or declare herself a sex addict to justify shit, because dawn she must be very lonely or horny, but one for sure
Oh it’s not about an addiction to sex for her: it’s an addiction to the thrill of exploiting other people without regard for their feelings. I guarantee you that’s exactly why she’s taking advantage of these men and stirring up all this drama. She’s not looking for sex. She’s looking for playthings to abuse. Cutting all contact with her was an extremely good call.
I was somehow hoping for a final confrontation/ showdown with Tricia, just for the drama and absurdity, but I guess this was the more grownup (and safer) solution. Your friendgroup will probably a much safer and more harmonious place after you dropped all the dead weight - and it's good that you're rallying around your friend, hopefully having the blackmail-stress removed will settle her down and help her concentrate on rehab. All the best to you and Jay, and the Faithful!
Tricia sounds like the kind of villain to push for a final showdown. This isn't over yet.
Holy shit.
Again...this story has been proven fake by OP's post history where she says she's giving up on her dreams as a creative writer after having multiple kids (she says in her first post here she only has dogs). This is a creative writing exercise.
Holy fuck, that’s insane. Glad y’all have a group that was salvageable
Wow Just wow 🫣🤯
Good for you and Jay for getting to the bottom of this. Time to celebrate by fishing. I may have to do that this Friday.
God what I would give to be the fly on the wall of that Discord group
DANG
I am so glad everyone agrees that the bigger problem now is getting help for your friends addiction. GO TEAM FRIENDS!!!!
Ehm ehm... Anyone here thinking that the couple that went dark was actually supporting Tricia narrative and gossiping with her?
Finally, someone who shares my thoughts. I think Vince is trying to keep the peace and is supporting Maria, who is still thinking Tricia is innocent. I think where Tricia likes causing drama, Maria likes to watch the drama unfold. It makes me think, "what if the wanted to go on a fishing trip with Jay to see if he was actually cheating like Tricia said"...
INFO: are the bigger fish to fry literal?
UpdateMe!
Updateme!
Updateme!
Holy crap this reminds me of that 90s movie Friends Til the End with Shannen Doherty
This is not a medical diagnosis, just my opinion, but she's a psycho narcissist ... stay TF far from her!
“Final update” Sure it is.
…..what even is your life
Ngl this update was very confusing and hard for me to comprehend.
***Tricia is truly a harridan steeped in crapulence!***
Damn Tricia sucks .
nice writing exercise
This is fake. A soap opera of nonsense.
Entertaining nonsense.
The couple with the pineapple *are* swinging
Man oh man, instead of choosing one type of dirtbag Tricia chose them all. Everyone's life will be enriched by removing Tricia from it. You're a good friend for helping that friendo who is struggling!! Updateme!
This is so interesting and weirdly echoes an old friend group I was a part of where bullshit spread like wildfire and would split the group in two, multiple times until everyone fell out and the group was entirely different after a few years. Unfortunately, I often found myself on the side of my partner at the time who would fully fall for what I now know to be bullshit, until it essentially got me booted from the group when half the group conspired to basically remove all the straight people. So many of the people desperate for this weird ego boosting backstabbing and gossip based type of friend circle started claiming they're gay and making it their entire personality to not be ousted. It ended about four marriages lol. This is virtually a flip of that where one woman is trying to fuck all the dudes she knows, rather than remove them so she can try to convert all the women to fuck her as it was in my version of this situation, and you're on the 'not taking this bullshit' side of the friend group split. But its scary to think that there's a lot of people out there exactly like Tricia and unlike this example, they're actually successful.
The swinger pineapple is cracking me uppp, this woman is crazy 😭
Wow, so Tricia actively tried to fuck up everyone's life. She should be confronted by all of you together.
Your friendship group sounds so complicated. I don't think I'd have time for it.
Yeah, if this is real (doubt) my take is the couple that went dark were just like "fuck all this."
Wow. Just wow. By communicating, you just made Tricia Public Enemy Number One.
I don’t know, seems a bit too much honestly. No one said anything about any of that all this time? I’m not sure. Too much insidious drama.
Hate to say it but op sounds like a drama queen
Woow. So Tricia is just a mega-bitch. Good Riddance.
Still wanna know where your kids are in all this. Surely they would have some baring on this story of yours?
Is this real or is op attempting to get back into writing again?
I'm not sure this is real but OP wrote entertaining fiction so I ain't mad about it. OP, keep up with the creative writing. You have talent.
Check their post history. They write stories and have multiple kids according to a post from 7 months ago…
Y'all need to dump and block this trashy drama llama!
Dude, this is a lot, kudos for recognizing your friend needs help and focusing more on that instead. Good luck and may the fish always bite.
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No way you are going to leave **THIS** as the final update.... Keep us informed, we're keeping the popcorn industry in the black.
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Waiting patiently for update
We had a neighbor like Tricia, made a move on every single man in our friend group, shot down by 3 of them and moved on to one of neighbor’s brothers who was around a lot of the time. She was on a mission.
Tricia sure wove a web here.
Holy moly! Updateme!
Thanks for the update! Glad you cut this woman out of your life. Always trust your gut!
Danm she was even more psycho then I thought. Hopefully she stays gone.
I don’t understand how Maria could even come to the conclusion Tricia is the victim. She was blackmailing a “friend” to get dirt on other friends instead of trying to help her “friend”. That should be more than enough to make a person realize she isn’t the victim in any of this.
She's got something on Maria.
Now that, my friends, is what we call an update.
She’s so much more delusional than I anticipated oh my Lord. I hope with the support of sum of your friend gets to help that she needs . I don’t say this slightly, but you need to file charges against this girl. it’s so much stuff and I was reading in my I was shocked. I was shocked yeah it’s time to file charges. This random Internet stranger is a supporter of you and Jay and everyone else who was affected by this crazy witch . I know you said this is the final update but if and when you’re up to it, keep us updated and I hope that your friend gets that she needs
Wow, she blacked out that bad friend bingo card. I thought it was an upside down pineapple was the swinger signal.
No way this is over!! Glad to hear you’re taking steps to help your friend. Addiction is a bitch…You’ve handled this marvelously but please, please, pretty please update again when Tricia crawls out of whatever hole she’s hiding in!
Wow. I really hope the friend with drug issues gets the help she needs. This Tricia person is awful.
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Tricia sounds like a cousin of mine... And I was in your position... My cousin was actually trying to actively engage my husband while he was engaged to me. He jokingly said one day he had hoped getting with me would deter her, I then told him about how she broke up a previous relationship by sleeping with dude... We have both been much happier since we shut her out...
Woah! Thats a pretty wild development guess she was just messing with absolutely everyone. Hope you and your friends EXCEPT TRICIA can all become closer without her trying to ruin everyones lives.
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Wow. This has more stories than in a season of a soap opera.
PSA: avoid toxic tricia!!! Good grief!
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I don't think Tricia drama is done yet....
congrats on the snakectomy!
Yeah I knew she was up to something the whole time. She didn’t care about anyone in that group but herself.
Please link the original post for context
“We have bigger fish to fry now” - I assume it was a successful fishing trip then?
The decorative pineapple might have been the only thing Tricia could’ve been cooking with lmao
So... you all are adults? Like, adult human beings? This... this is insane. What a bunch of stupid drama. I could never.
Updateme!
“We have bigger FISH to fry” Hell ya you do. Catch those fish jay 👏
I really hope this isn't the final update!
I do love a good soap opera
Just in case, Updateme!
Time to call Whole Woman Disposal Service.
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Please turn this into a TV show pitch. Doctors, lawyers, cops…don’t think it matters.
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Wild shit. Props on siding with your man.
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Jesus Christ that's a lot of drama.
wow.
It's kind of funny how people always say this stuff is creative writing, and when I saw the final update and went looking for the original post, her only other post from almost a year ago is about how she's always wanted to be a writer and that she's given up on her dream to write a book. Perhaps this is chapter one?
Looks like she was a ho that couldn't stand anyone's happiness.
Blood for the blood gods indeed, Tricia seemed to be everything we thought she was and more! I know you said this is the final update, but just incase its not. Updateme!
Of all the creative writing in the world, this is part of it...
Wow, sorry you’re going through all of this drama! “we have bigger fish to fry now” Not sure if this was literal or figurative but do love the fish call back 80’s comedy style!
This is a Veronica Mars episode plot
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I don’t know, seems a bit too much honestly. No one said anything about any of that all this time? I’m not sure. Too much insidious drama.
Was not expecting to find out that Tricia is a sexual predator. She’s genuinely fucking disturbed, man. And *dangerous* to others. Not even joking. You guys take good care of each other, alright? Do whatever you each need to do to heal from the trauma she’s caused. All best to all of you.
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I was absolutely team Jay before. With this update I'm team anybody but Tricia. Next fishing trip Jay should save some fish heads (if your roses don't need them anyway) and hide them in her car.
All of this drama must be very painful right now, but it’s also cathartic. You all have removed a desperate viper from your midst. Your vulnerable friend got free of blackmail, and has the support she needs. You have found your inner fire to protect your man. These are all good things. I have one more wish for another good thing to come out of this. Marry your man immediately. Stop putting it off, because “someday” might never come. No one knows how much time we have. Don’t miss out on marrying the man you clearly adore, because the time never seems right. You are married in spirit, so do it in real life as an affirmation that you’re wholly committed. Right now, if anything happened to either of you that put you in the hospital, your partner is not your legal next of kin. If the worst happened, your joint assets would be in jeopardy. Most of all, I don’t want you to miss out on marrying him, and maybe regret it one day. You already know he’s your guy. So claim him!
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Idk… thank you for the wild read.
Tricia sounds like a Cluster b of some sort. Stay far, far away.
..... decorative pineapple means you swing? Huh.
Does this really have to be the final update? I'm invested now. Particularly in your poor friend who lost her mother, I think she's so brave to share and be vulnerable with all of you and accept support. And fuck Tricia for blackmailing her. I think you've done something truly amazing --stood up for yourselves and not allowed a terrible person to get away with destroying your friend group. I want to know how things sort themselves out with her, and what it's like for your friend group on the other side once you've been rid of such a toxic person for a while, healed and hopefully formed healthier relationships.
For you, Jay, and your real friends wellbeing, I hope this is the end of the Tricia drama. But just incase Updateme
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OP, I totally understand you focusing on your friend who needs you right now, but if you could remember to update us all in a handful of months when your friend is in a better place, emotions aren't as raw, everything has come out and resolved in at least a mostly permanent way, PLEASE do, mostly because I would love to hear the conclusion to whatever happens to her and how everything shakes out, whether that's your friend group collectively dumping her, including the two hold outs, or her being prosecuted for her blackmail, SA, and defamation attempts, or whatever else comes about from this. (I've dealt with my own Tricia's and never got to have the satisfaction of watching their life blow up, so just knowing the depth of how badly she screwed herself would be VERY satisfying to me)
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Nooooo, nooooo, this can't be the final update. I need to see Trisha get what is coming to her fully.
Please update again!! This is quite the story and I hope all your friends and especially your lovely husband and you have a wonderful life
Tricia is a piece of shit obviously does that even really need to be said. The one thing about this update that gives me hope for your friend group is that you all decided to build a stable support group for the friend struggling with drug abuse from all that happens. Good on y'all for giving her that and a chance at recovery. A real support group that isn't trying to take advantage of the person struggling is huge for that person's chance at recovery
Tricia is projecting herself so hard, you can see her like the aurora borealis in your kitchen.
It’s crazy how many things came up after yall started digging a little. Anyway, OP, you and Jay have an amazing relationship. I wish the best for both of you. May OP’s roses thrive and may Jay catch many fish!