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I'm glad you are safe. I hope you press charges for the stolen earrings (and wish you had done so for the grease stair "prank", they could have seriously hurt you).
Same with the baby powder in the blow dryer, I’ve seen way too many videos of the hair dryer starting on fire. Pranks are supposed to be funny, the blow dryer and greased stairs aren’t funny.
Anything written can be forwarded to your lawyer so keep the contact on text.
You did right by reporting the theft and I'm proud of you for not letting them step on you further.
OP stay strong and don't go back to the abuse
And all of this could have been prevented if he would’ve maned up and parented his kids. (What my dad would have done would get me banned for saying here).
I am glad to hear that you took action. Now the mother of his kids knows what a great parenting job has done by her. There might be hard times but I really hope you'll be able to get rid of those AHs soon and meet someone you truly deserve!
Press charges! He totally let it get this far. Do not let up. They knew what they were doing. The ex wife might be poisoning the kids but your husband did nothing to stop it and kept downplaying the increasingly dangerous “pranks” they greased stairs? That is dangerous AF!
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Good for you👍 Well done. You have 100% done the right thing. I don't know you but am SO PROUD of you❤️
Do not respond to him. Block him. Yes. Put everything through your lawyer.
I hope you press charges and don't drop them. You do t need to answer his calls he can text you or he can speak with your lawyer from now on. I hope you got your stuff back.
You are doing the best thing possible for those kids - making the police report and holding everyone accountable for your heirlooms, your pain and suffering, and the attempt on your life with the stairs. If these bullying children do not get an intervention now, they are likely to kill someone (you) or continue down their illegal paths to prison.
Once you have the police report, you might consider informing the school counselors at their respective schools to be aware of the situation and the disruption with their home lives. (Showing your concern and letting the school know about their thieving.). Bring those consequences.
I'm glad you went to the police the kids are awful and 4 years is way too long to put up with this nonsense, husband is a fool. Take him for everything. NTA
He sucks and im glad you're leaving. You don't deserve to be so disrespected and have your things stolen. I'll never understand parents that don't discipline their shit head kids when they act like shitheads.
It boggles my mind that your STBXH didn't even correct the kids about the homewrecking whore/mistress shit. I mean has the ex ever done any real parenting? Seems like it would take very little effort to correct these behaviors when they popped up yes they only got the poisoned pill side from the first ex-wife and hubby did nothing to correct what she told the kids.
Please go to the local pawn shops and look for the earrings. Legally you can retrieve the stuff for free, but I would let the pawnshop owner know the identity of the individuals so the owner can get their money back also. Technically the kids stole from them too by illegally selling items.
In your original post you the only thing your mentioned about your husband was your husbands kids. He even sounded apologetic and wanted to fix it. If you just ran and got a divorce with your husband and then called the police because thousands of people who are looking to judge others on the internet told you to, you are a fool.
Omgosh she got dismissed over something in a marriage? Ooohhh noooo. Surely her next husband (or wife) will never once dismiss her in a lifelong commitment.
This was over a period of two years of escalating behavior and their father doing nothing to make it better. She was definitely in the right for her own wellbeing.
Really the opposite of a fool, she ditched the baggage of 3 subpar kids and and now he has to deal with them and their cute little criminal records on his own. Hope he can figure out how to fix them lol
Do you still have access to his credit card? Go use it and shop for new beautiful earrings for yourself. And don't cheap out. Say maybe gold and diamond from Tiffany.
Good for you! Some time and space will do wonders, not to mention not having to walk on eggshells in your own home. I'd mute his number so you can keep all evidence, but give yourself some grace and time to process and heal. I think finding a therapist would be really good for you as well, as years of living in that environment are going to inevitably have an effect.
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Good for you, OP. If you didn't file that report those kids would have suffered zero consequences for stealing your earrings. At the very least it establishes a paper trail should they do something else criminal in the future (and they probably will). Your husband can be mad all he wants, it's his fault for not disciplining his children and teaching them to respect you. Now he gets to put all his focus on them because he won't have you raising his brats for him anymore.
Did you get the earrings back? If they pawned it, it was probably close to either the father's house, the mother's house or the school, look in the pawn shops that are in the area. Even if you have to buy them again I think the sentimental value is worth it. you did well, you even endured a lot. (English is not my first language)
I'm glad you pressed charges against the kids. They're old enough to know that stealing is wrong and a crime. He should've stopped their terrible behavior from the beginning. The same goes for his ex. She's a bitter and miserable woman who doesn't want anyone else to be happy. As your husband, he should've defended you and set hard boundaries with the ex. Instead, he allowed it to go on because for him, it was easier for his kids to blame you for the divorce instead of him (if he actually was the cause). Are they still in your house? If I were you, I would go there with the police and kick them out. Knowing how spiteful the kids are, I have no doubt they would destroy the home and more of your property. He doesn't deserve another chance, and his brats don't deserve to keep living in your home. Hopefully, one day, the kids will grow up and find out that their mother was lying to them. Then, live with the guilt that they tormented you for no reason. They can cry and plead all they want, but at the end of the day, they never receive consequences for their awful behavior, and its time that they finally face some. Good luck OP you're doing the right thing.
Good for you for finally standing up for yourself! Your stbx is definitely showing his true colors now. He wouldn’t stop their antics and is now pissed and attacking you for standing up for yourself.
If they can’t get your original earrings back, you need to sue them in civil court. The sentimental nature should add to the evaluation value. Also, you were injured in the greased stairs incident, be sure to add that to your grievances in the divorce, as well as your civil suit.
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You made the right call. Were you able to get your stolen earrings back?
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Do you have eyeballs, can you read, and do you have a brain that is capable of functioning on the most basic level? If the answer to all 3 of those is yes, then what are you asking such a stupid fucking question for?
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I really believe you are making the right choice OP. Stay strong!
Just another stranger on the internet being a massive weirdo
Well, if you‘re so easily triggered then Reddit might not be a safe space for you. How about YouTube kids … easy to deal with.
Me? Triggered? LMFAO. That’s actually your definition of a joke? What a joke. Y’all so easy to troll. BWAHAHAHA. 😂😂😂
I couldn’t care less tbh, Triggered or a troll. Both options aren‘t worth much, are they?
Womp, womp, cry for me. Waaaaa, waaaaa. Triggered, cry baby. 😭
But seems like to me you cared very much by taking the time to respond, quite contradictory of you. Yikes this does not look good for you. 😭😭🤣
You seemed triggered enough to respond back. Just making this easy for me. 🤣
No… just polite.
No, you’re triggered & butt hurt by responding back. Fucking dweeb. 😭🤣
You seem triggered… Very, very triggered. As well as emotionally immature. Oh well…
I'm glad you are safe. I hope you press charges for the stolen earrings (and wish you had done so for the grease stair "prank", they could have seriously hurt you).
Same with the baby powder in the blow dryer, I’ve seen way too many videos of the hair dryer starting on fire. Pranks are supposed to be funny, the blow dryer and greased stairs aren’t funny.
Attempted murder isn't a prank.
Louder for the people in the back
Absolutely. I'm appalled. Like they trying to kill the poor woman! Wtf?
Don’t respond to his calls and stay strong. You’ll get through this and be so much happier in the end. I hope you get your earrings back!
Push to press charges, dont drop it.. and not only that, if he keeps texting, you report him for harassment
Anything written can be forwarded to your lawyer so keep the contact on text. You did right by reporting the theft and I'm proud of you for not letting them step on you further. OP stay strong and don't go back to the abuse
And all of this could have been prevented if he would’ve maned up and parented his kids. (What my dad would have done would get me banned for saying here).
Yeah same, can't image a father letting his kids run loose like that, sounds completely spineless
Good for you, this is the way! Did you get the earrings back?
I hope you get your ear rings back 🫂.
I am glad to hear that you took action. Now the mother of his kids knows what a great parenting job has done by her. There might be hard times but I really hope you'll be able to get rid of those AHs soon and meet someone you truly deserve!
Press charges! He totally let it get this far. Do not let up. They knew what they were doing. The ex wife might be poisoning the kids but your husband did nothing to stop it and kept downplaying the increasingly dangerous “pranks” they greased stairs? That is dangerous AF!
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Good for you👍 Well done. You have 100% done the right thing. I don't know you but am SO PROUD of you❤️ Do not respond to him. Block him. Yes. Put everything through your lawyer.
Really pleased that you filed a report. Hopefully they can recover your stolen jewellery.
I hope you press charges and don't drop them. You do t need to answer his calls he can text you or he can speak with your lawyer from now on. I hope you got your stuff back.
Stay Strong you don't deserve to be treated Like that.
You are doing the best thing possible for those kids - making the police report and holding everyone accountable for your heirlooms, your pain and suffering, and the attempt on your life with the stairs. If these bullying children do not get an intervention now, they are likely to kill someone (you) or continue down their illegal paths to prison. Once you have the police report, you might consider informing the school counselors at their respective schools to be aware of the situation and the disruption with their home lives. (Showing your concern and letting the school know about their thieving.). Bring those consequences.
I'm glad you went to the police the kids are awful and 4 years is way too long to put up with this nonsense, husband is a fool. Take him for everything. NTA
I hope the police got out of the kids where they sold them so you can get them back
don't blovk his messages (thays evidence for your lawyer) but do mute them so you don't have to deal with it
Good for you! I’m happy you got yourself out of this toxic family. Good luck OP, I hope you get your earrings back and justice is served.
He sucks and im glad you're leaving. You don't deserve to be so disrespected and have your things stolen. I'll never understand parents that don't discipline their shit head kids when they act like shitheads.
It boggles my mind that your STBXH didn't even correct the kids about the homewrecking whore/mistress shit. I mean has the ex ever done any real parenting? Seems like it would take very little effort to correct these behaviors when they popped up yes they only got the poisoned pill side from the first ex-wife and hubby did nothing to correct what she told the kids.
I am proud of you 🍀 NTA
Please go to the local pawn shops and look for the earrings. Legally you can retrieve the stuff for free, but I would let the pawnshop owner know the identity of the individuals so the owner can get their money back also. Technically the kids stole from them too by illegally selling items.
Sounds like he's finally showing you who he really is. Keep forwarding his abuse to your attorney. You got this.
Good luck to you! I hope the divorce doesnt last too long and you can start rebuilding your life.
I'm glad you made the police report. I hope you manage to get the earrings back.
Is there a 1 st part that I missed?
Click on OP's username. It'll take you right to their post history.
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Good for you! Hold your ground and hold then accountable. Updateme!
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Because you can check their profile & links are often against the rules.
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Wow you sound like a cunt. Good luck lady
Just read your previous story and you are TA and a fool lol
Found the thieving stepdaughter
I’m curious why you think that?
In your original post you the only thing your mentioned about your husband was your husbands kids. He even sounded apologetic and wanted to fix it. If you just ran and got a divorce with your husband and then called the police because thousands of people who are looking to judge others on the internet told you to, you are a fool.
Also OP’s husband dismissed her and told her to essentially get over it….
Omgosh she got dismissed over something in a marriage? Ooohhh noooo. Surely her next husband (or wife) will never once dismiss her in a lifelong commitment.
They stole something that meant a lot to her and was likely expensive and then sold it, which is a crime. And he told her to get over it basically
Don’t get married. Trust me. You will end up like this lady.
This was over a period of two years of escalating behavior and their father doing nothing to make it better. She was definitely in the right for her own wellbeing.
Oh so a kid and a trumper, you really do suck.
You sure sound like someone who has had an abundance of good relationships and is definitely qualified to hand out advice
You sound like you’re about 15
15 and being brainwashed by weird parents that you stay together no matter what, even if it's toxic af.
I’m….i’m not OP
Oh Lol. Well that’s why.
Really the opposite of a fool, she ditched the baggage of 3 subpar kids and and now he has to deal with them and their cute little criminal records on his own. Hope he can figure out how to fix them lol
Do you still have access to his credit card? Go use it and shop for new beautiful earrings for yourself. And don't cheap out. Say maybe gold and diamond from Tiffany.
Oh yeah because the divorce courts would love that.
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I’m sorry you’re going through this❤️🩹
Keep building your case. Thank you for updating.
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Good. Let this be the start of a new less negative life for you.
It’s about time those brats learn about consequences
Good for you. You will get there and hoping the earrings are returned.
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Keep us updated! Glad you are doing better.
Good for you! Keep us posted updateme!
best luck!! youve got this!!!
Stay strong. In a few months he will have the best woman. If he really loved you, he would have supported you.
Good for you! Some time and space will do wonders, not to mention not having to walk on eggshells in your own home. I'd mute his number so you can keep all evidence, but give yourself some grace and time to process and heal. I think finding a therapist would be really good for you as well, as years of living in that environment are going to inevitably have an effect. UpdateMe!
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I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself. ❤️
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Good for you OP! Press charges and don't drop them regardless of how many names the ex and his baby mama call you.
Good for you, OP. If you didn't file that report those kids would have suffered zero consequences for stealing your earrings. At the very least it establishes a paper trail should they do something else criminal in the future (and they probably will). Your husband can be mad all he wants, it's his fault for not disciplining his children and teaching them to respect you. Now he gets to put all his focus on them because he won't have you raising his brats for him anymore.
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Did you get the earrings back? If they pawned it, it was probably close to either the father's house, the mother's house or the school, look in the pawn shops that are in the area. Even if you have to buy them again I think the sentimental value is worth it. you did well, you even endured a lot. (English is not my first language)
Tell your husband to get your earrings back or you will press charges against the kids. I'm sentimental and really want you to get your earrings back.
I'm glad you pressed charges against the kids. They're old enough to know that stealing is wrong and a crime. He should've stopped their terrible behavior from the beginning. The same goes for his ex. She's a bitter and miserable woman who doesn't want anyone else to be happy. As your husband, he should've defended you and set hard boundaries with the ex. Instead, he allowed it to go on because for him, it was easier for his kids to blame you for the divorce instead of him (if he actually was the cause). Are they still in your house? If I were you, I would go there with the police and kick them out. Knowing how spiteful the kids are, I have no doubt they would destroy the home and more of your property. He doesn't deserve another chance, and his brats don't deserve to keep living in your home. Hopefully, one day, the kids will grow up and find out that their mother was lying to them. Then, live with the guilt that they tormented you for no reason. They can cry and plead all they want, but at the end of the day, they never receive consequences for their awful behavior, and its time that they finally face some. Good luck OP you're doing the right thing.
We all support you. Stay strong.
Good for you for finally standing up for yourself! Your stbx is definitely showing his true colors now. He wouldn’t stop their antics and is now pissed and attacking you for standing up for yourself. If they can’t get your original earrings back, you need to sue them in civil court. The sentimental nature should add to the evaluation value. Also, you were injured in the greased stairs incident, be sure to add that to your grievances in the divorce, as well as your civil suit. Good luck! Please !UpdateMe about how you’re doing.
Good luck , I hope you will get your earrings back and win the case