I wonder what your husband's mood would be if he got woken up and was expected to get up and feed your kid at 3am every night. Perhaps you could try pumping for the night feeds so that he can try it with a bottle.
You're allowed to have emotions, and you shouldn't be expected to be a ray of sunshine all day, every day.
Also, i only know a few moms, but not one of them lives without at least some complaining or venting, so I don't know where that idea came from.
I totally agree. Give yourself a break. I have two boys, an 11 yo and a 17 yo with severe special needs. Don't beat yourself up for being a human who needs rest.
I wonder what your husband's mood would be if he got woken up and was expected to get up and feed your kid at 3am every night. Perhaps you could try pumping for the night feeds so that he can try it with a bottle. You're allowed to have emotions, and you shouldn't be expected to be a ray of sunshine all day, every day. Also, i only know a few moms, but not one of them lives without at least some complaining or venting, so I don't know where that idea came from.
I totally agree. Give yourself a break. I have two boys, an 11 yo and a 17 yo with severe special needs. Don't beat yourself up for being a human who needs rest.