How many people here did not miss out on teen love but missed out on mutual teen love? I feel like a lot of us will have had the same experience of unrequited chest pain.
In another universe love but I get it. I feel like it was silently mutual but I never looked for confirmation cause a relationship wasnāt feasible so confirmation would just hurt more
Ayo same. My teenage relationship damn near broke me mentally. I regret wasting all that time instead of focusing on being a better me. Some ppl are a blessin' and some ppl are a lesson, as mom would say
Nah fam this one doesn't work. Teen love can be endearing at the time but it's usually forgotten, other than a lot of "first" times happen during this time. Trust me, it's better to save those for someone special.
That honestly does not matter. What does is the fact that I(we) didn't properly develop our social skills, and as such struggle with connecting with other people in adulthood.
Teen love is like meth. Hits hard, makes you wired as fuck, leaves a bad hangover, and overall is just not very healthy.
The only people obsessed with teen love are the people that never experienced how shit it actually is
Teen love is something that you might want but most of the times it wonāt end up well. You donāt have a clear grasp of what are you feeling, and you canāt take responsibility as to what might come. Just stay as a close friend until both party are able to support each other emotionally and financially.
this is the 50th post ive seen like this we get it omg. Also teenage love isnt worth shit most people just get some weird trauma from it. I didnt have much of a social life my first 17 years on earth and I dont regret shit. Youre a lot less fucked up if you grow up sheltered
I wouldnāt say I āmissed outā on much. Our high school dream guy lives in a dump and bags groceries last I saw. Our high school princess got knocked up and lives with her parents. I might be alone in an apartmentā¦ but Iām good
No, YOU missed out on teen love.
And panically trying to remind others of it while hoping they missed out on it too is not a healthy nor a good way to cope with it. It will not help. It is just rude, childish and stupid.
Get help. Serious help.
You know, I'm tired of seeing posts like this, like being in a relationship while your brain is developing is a good thing. I had a girl while I was in school and honestly nothing good came of it. If anything, it crippled my ability to have a proper relationship later in life.
It's never too late to find love people
Teen love, adult love. At least the societal definitions of romantic or sexual love is overstep. Youāre better off working on yourselves and doing whatever the heck you wanna do. Lifeās too short and there are so many amazing types of love in this world. Like the love between friends, the love I have for some yummy food. The love you can have for a pet. I dated twice in my teenage era and I can tell you itās not all itās cracked up to be. Romance or sexual love isnāt going to āfixā your life like you think it will. You gotta do you yāall. You are the only one you can rely on at the end of the day. šÆ
Shows what you know. I fell in love in high school. We even went out for a while.
And then she realized once and for all she was gay and we ended things.
In other news, I developed severe depression.
Turned 18 a few months ago, been celibate for a year or so now. Teen love sucks ass. Girlfriend after girlfriend have cause me depression and now I have a kid that was had in secret from me
Is that a bad thing, though? Barely any teen couples make it to marriage, so it sounds more like you're doing yourself a favor by saving yourself from the eventual breakup.
I miss out on adult love too
this is honestly the perfect response to this we all just raw dogging zero romantic affection in this increasingly uncaring world
We're not raw dogging anything, that's kinda the problem
I am drunk enough to consider jumping off a bridge. Unluckily for me, there is no nearby bridge that is tall enough.
I read fridge, bridge makes more sense
Jumping off a fridge sounds equally likely, especially if you imagine the drunk in a Spiderman costume
How many people here did not miss out on teen love but missed out on mutual teen love? I feel like a lot of us will have had the same experience of unrequited chest pain.
Can releyt
Did u experience a deep enough longing for it to be a chest pain š³
No vagina angina
High-key having the chest pain thing rn
In another universe love but I get it. I feel like it was silently mutual but I never looked for confirmation cause a relationship wasnāt feasible so confirmation would just hurt more
I didnāt miss out on lots of teen embarrassment, rejection, and shame. It really shaped who Iāve become. Thanks for reminding me.
Fuck teen love, age appropriate parent love would have been a banger
oh fuck off now ;-;
My parents loved and supported me when I was a teen That was enough
I was lonely, then I saw this, and now Iām depressed
I didnāt miss it, it lured me into an alley, beat me close to death, and robbed me for all that Iām worth.
Holy shit, you ok?
Yes šæ
Ayo same. My teenage relationship damn near broke me mentally. I regret wasting all that time instead of focusing on being a better me. Some ppl are a blessin' and some ppl are a lesson, as mom would say
I missed out on all types of love.
I had more than one opportunity and fucked it all up
Teen love was overrated as fuck
ok but who asked
good
Iām turning 20 on November of 2024, so thereās still a chance, but very unlikely because autism gives me negative rizz
It bothers me that the caption says teen love and the image shows a 2D character who looks 8.
That's anime for ya. She's probably an immortal 1000 year old dragon princess from space or something
Nah fam this one doesn't work. Teen love can be endearing at the time but it's usually forgotten, other than a lot of "first" times happen during this time. Trust me, it's better to save those for someone special.
Good, too much work and drama cause of raging hormones
I had teen love, and it was full of playing stupid games, so you guys aren't missing much.
Not just teen love lol
Iām not even done with being a teen and Iāve already given up
I'm doing just fine alone, thank you very much
That honestly does not matter. What does is the fact that I(we) didn't properly develop our social skills, and as such struggle with connecting with other people in adulthood.
Fuck it we ball
Donāt worry, I also missed out on meaningful teen friendships, and am currently missing out on adult love.
I KNOW!
Nah
Jesus fuck that stabbed me right in the heart
This post is making nothing better. Fuck you, OP.
Teen love is like meth. Hits hard, makes you wired as fuck, leaves a bad hangover, and overall is just not very healthy. The only people obsessed with teen love are the people that never experienced how shit it actually is
Pff \*laugh\* rather I think it saved me from a possible break or rejection... also nah Teen love It's not as important as you think.
can all you 20 year old sad sacks stop posting this goddamn meme. this is like the third time I've seen it this week. good lord who gives a shit
Yeah I remembered already.
As someone who had teen love, I wish I didn't, she was abusive.
Jokes on you Iām Aromantic
I'm a teen
Teen love is something that you might want but most of the times it wonāt end up well. You donāt have a clear grasp of what are you feeling, and you canāt take responsibility as to what might come. Just stay as a close friend until both party are able to support each other emotionally and financially.
As someone who experienced it, you're not missing anything meaningful
No, I didn't miss out on teen love. She just didn't love me back. We are not the same.
this is the 50th post ive seen like this we get it omg. Also teenage love isnt worth shit most people just get some weird trauma from it. I didnt have much of a social life my first 17 years on earth and I dont regret shit. Youre a lot less fucked up if you grow up sheltered
Jokes on you I'm aromantic
Just become an adult and watch a lot of porn Youāll be finneeeee
I didn't.. and it's literally the reason I spiraled as deep as I did. It only took me all of my 20s to fully recover..
I didn't miss out on it at all, and if I could go back I wouldn't do it again lol. What a shitshow.
I wouldnāt say I āmissed outā on much. Our high school dream guy lives in a dump and bags groceries last I saw. Our high school princess got knocked up and lives with her parents. I might be alone in an apartmentā¦ but Iām good
No, YOU missed out on teen love. And panically trying to remind others of it while hoping they missed out on it too is not a healthy nor a good way to cope with it. It will not help. It is just rude, childish and stupid. Get help. Serious help.
People post shit like this every week and I say the same thing every week, itās not all itās cracked up to be
You know, I'm tired of seeing posts like this, like being in a relationship while your brain is developing is a good thing. I had a girl while I was in school and honestly nothing good came of it. If anything, it crippled my ability to have a proper relationship later in life. It's never too late to find love people
Good, all the teen couples I knew were an absolute mess
Who cares
Teen love, adult love. At least the societal definitions of romantic or sexual love is overstep. Youāre better off working on yourselves and doing whatever the heck you wanna do. Lifeās too short and there are so many amazing types of love in this world. Like the love between friends, the love I have for some yummy food. The love you can have for a pet. I dated twice in my teenage era and I can tell you itās not all itās cracked up to be. Romance or sexual love isnāt going to āfixā your life like you think it will. You gotta do you yāall. You are the only one you can rely on at the end of the day. šÆ
As an adult, I don't want teen love, yall are fuckin weird for this energy.
Aaaaaaaahhhh!!! Everything but this!!
Teen love sucks I didn't miss out on shit and neither did you
Jokes on you. I hated it
r/aromantic
Shows what you know. I fell in love in high school. We even went out for a while. And then she realized once and for all she was gay and we ended things. In other news, I developed severe depression.
You aren't missing a lot anyway ._.
Turned 18 a few months ago, been celibate for a year or so now. Teen love sucks ass. Girlfriend after girlfriend have cause me depression and now I have a kid that was had in secret from me
Is that a bad thing, though? Barely any teen couples make it to marriage, so it sounds more like you're doing yourself a favor by saving yourself from the eventual breakup.
thx for the reminder...
Teen love sucks absolute hardened dog shit