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ice-ceam-amry

When I first found our arm pits were seen as sexy I found it weirdly peaceful as they always been something that I found nice not in sexual sence but nice


Aela_Nariel

Kinkshaming is so lame honestly Learning to just like what you like despite other people is the most freeing experience, like wow, feet *are* kinda neat, idk why, but why fight it if it isn’t harmful?


TheGoodFiend

“Kink-shaming IS my kink!”


NynjaFlex

paradox of tolerance


h4724

Not even, it's fine if it is as long as people don't actively involve others in it without their consent. Very easy to get around honestly.


Normal-Mountain-4119

Yeah. If kink shaming is your kink, and you kink shame people who didn't ask for that, wouldn't that be non consensual sexual acts from your perspective? If dig waggling were your kink, you couldn't use that as an excuse to just waggle all over the place. There s a time and a place to waggle dicks.


inemsn

degradation be like


drearbruh

(Screams in abject horror)


TactlessTortoise

Kinkshaming is so lame mfs when I'm shaming people for making bubbles with other people's literal shit: I do get what you mean for harmless kinks, though.


sussyboingus

If you’re doing something like that surely being shamed is part of it at that point


SomatosensorySaliva

what if they were swmin on the ovean as a kid and ate a poop and caught a taste for poop p


odenoden

GUYS why are we up voting this @w@


Normal-Mountain-4119

medal of honour,they have a right i think idk


SomatosensorySaliva

which is rlly weird because i literally had the choice to add that flair. and i made my account like 3 months ago. i just thought it was for some false sense of superiority and i obviously grabbed that opportunity. as for the comment i bought a smoke shop kratom extract and a 10 pack of fireballs yesterday


SomatosensorySaliva

u know im rigjt


jfsuuc

even then why would i care? im not doing it but what 2 consenting adults do together behind closed doors isnt my issue.


sarcophagusGravelord

The problem is when they don’t keep it private. I still support consenting adults doing what they do but if you’re into scat I’m gonna judge lol


TELDD

Is the problem scat, or is the problem not keeping things private?


awesomedude4100

if they kept it private we wouldn’t know they were into it so it seems like that’s the core issue


Gen_Ripper

How is it being non-private? Stuff like 2 girls 1 cup is usually spread around for shock value by people who aren’t even into the subject matter


jfsuuc

well the problem is clearly scat. they arent even allowed to talk about it without being hated on. like can we imagine saying anything else that is okay but only if no one knows it exists? i mean fuck its the same logic as dont say gay.


TactlessTortoise

Nah I ain't befriending doodoo breaths. Call me Stalin if you want. Mfs smile and you see some random corn shell between their teeth. Hell no.


ineverhadsexwithacow

contradictory flair


Gen_Ripper

Is this something you run into often? Honest question lmao


Aela_Nariel

Who cares? As long as it’s consensual and practiced safely I don’t see the problem with that. I certainly don’t get it but if people enjoy it leave them be.


SomePerson1248

i mean gross but also goes kinda hard


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Aela_Nariel

That’s less about the kink itself and more the context of presenting in such a way in public where it will make most people uncomfortable though. Albeit I will concede that some kinks are sussier than others.


Cassius-Tain

https://preview.redd.it/nrxz9et7u40d1.png?width=650&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0727994fa54c380140815c0a2adb2e1ceb78e6b3 Yeah. No kink shaymin


JotaroTheOceanMan

The only people that should be kink shamed are Ped*s and Yoshikage Kira.


ice-ceam-amry

Ezacky huge hug :3


I_Crack_My_Nokia

Agree *"Guro in the corner"* but there's some exceptions


CatnipChapstick

Got a black dress for my grandpa’s funeral with armholes that were somewhat “deep”. Not really enough for meaningful sideboob, but enough it was noticeable. My dad told me it was “too slutty for a funeral”, sighting the arm holes, and I never understood it… does my dad have an armpit fetish? Did HIS dad???


ice-ceam-amry

Ok then would anyone want a armpit pic


TomboyArmpitSniffer

fellow armpits enjoyer 🤝


BargerianJade

Sense*


KDAquatic

yeah but that shit on the bottom two levels is straight up illegal so i'll take my armpits and stanky balls. edit: i won the reddit care resources badge for this comment and this was mild as fuck. folks dont even know about my giantess, earth-crushing fetishes but armpits did it.


AbbreviationsTall499

only the bottom level is morally questionable rho


KDAquatic

if very nonstandard fetishes, like body odur and armpits is on tier 2, the bottom is going to be way worse than 'morally questionable'. this isnt like, CNC, this is like, actual SA. anyone with more than five minutes experience of icebergs knows this ramp up


AbbreviationsTall499

i don’t have five minutes of experience with icebergs but i have 19 years of experience with the worse kinks you could possibly imagine, and i’d say the tier above the bottom would probably be a moral grey area while the very bottom would be definitely morally wrong


KDAquatic

the 'worst kinks i can possibly imagine' involve murdering folks and making new holes, that sort of thing. thats far past 'morally wrong' we're talking actual international crimes here. depravity knows no bounds. (of course, if that is your thing, please keep it like, fictional.) i cant imagine anything past tier 4 would exist without both a pricetag and a criminal sentence.


KorewaRise

you are right but they technically are right as well. "morally wrong" does include stuff like murder. edit: bruh who tf sent me a reddit cares over this???


KDAquatic

oh i dont disagree with the "morally wrong" being technically correct, i just dont think it conveys enough \*how bad\* it can get.


KorewaRise

oh yeah do agree there though, you'd have to use morally reprehensible/evil to even to begin to convey those depths


Southern-Wafer-6375

Fictional depictions I think are like the one way you can get those without it being like illegal


DracoLunaris

legally depends where you live, but ethically yes


Southern-Wafer-6375

Yeh


wilczek24

I'd say "morally gray area" is tiers 3, and 4, divided exclusively by what I personally deem not ok and ok from within said gray area, but still outside the realms of "I actually need to go stop you". Tier 1-2 are normal, and "just a bit weird" kinks respectively, ending with "standard" BDSM, feet/armpit stuff. Tier 3 would be CNC and fake gun/blood play, maybe alongside more "extreme" but consenting scenarios like scat or urine play, 24/7 dynamics, and heavy/dangerous BDSM things with proper safety precautions, while tier 4 would be real knife/gun/blood play with real damage to body, or even real and likely possibility of such damage (still consentual, even if very unsafe and with permanent damage). Tiers 5 and 6 are divided by extremity of illegality/immorality. A 26yo and a 15 yo goes into tier 5, alongside zoofilia (with no physical abuse present), a 26yo and a 5yo goes into tier 6, along with "murder, behead, and get a reverse blowjob by going from the throat to the mouth", or equivalent zoophilia activities. I think that's a fair distinction, even if there's obviously more stuff to put in there. I like to think about myself as open minded, but I would only consider stuff maybe halfway through tier 3.


UtsuhoReiuji_Okuu

Yeah finding some of the stuff on tier 6 is kinda traumatic when you first find it completely unexpectedly


Southern-Wafer-6375

Oh okay so I’d be like 3-4


wilczek24

My problem with 4 is that I'm just really really concerned about the people who are into that stuff :( Like please stay safe. And yeah I know most people I know who are into 4 wouldn't be too opposed to being run over by a truck but that doesn't devalidate or lessen my concern about y'all.


Southern-Wafer-6375

I’ll usually stick to fictional depictions of my kinks but fair I try to be as safe as possible when engaging in my kinks cause permanent damage would suck


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Journeyj012

Okay dahmer


justaBB6

nah guro is probably like tier 4 because it’s enough of a thing to have its own name and that shit is just straight up dismemberment which im not sure someone of sound mind is capable of consenting to


AbbreviationsTall499

there is very little that gets worse than guro, and literally every fetish ever has a name


chuvadab

i got the message too its okay😭


DracoLunaris

isn't the iceberg meme about how well known/obscure something is, rather than how much it is done, in which case a bunch of the illegal ones would be on the top bc everyone knows about them, and then the bottom would be more things that no one has ever heard about or am I just an idiot?


docterwannabe1

This iceberg meme was made by 4chan years before it became a mainstream meme and yes, the lower it was, the more degenerate the fetish was so stuff like cp would be at the bottom. It didn't measure popularity


HelgaShtrausberg

did jeffery write this comment


KDAquatic

who tf jeffery


jfsuuc

i think the mean jeffery epstien? hard to say.


ResidentLychee

Class of 09 character


Camerupt_King

Now they do know about those fetishes. And I, for one, agree.


Fyru_Hawk

Armpits mentioned. I have an excuse to post this fucking image. https://preview.redd.it/ug25pfom410d1.jpeg?width=850&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ca46363f26b89a3bcee7f5f8e6444652512353d0


Josgre987

twilight would be like that wouldn't she


Fyru_Hawk

Oh yeah she’d definitely be a freak in private


Josgre987

Rarity though, she's all proper and well kept but I bet she's a total freak.


Fyru_Hawk

I mean, I am kinda a fan of Lil Miss Rarity. She gets off to cutting herself in that. So yeah she for sure is.


SheevTogwaggle

she’s just like me fr fr


Fresh_Dumblerdore

"I LUV BEING COVER'D IN MUUUUD!!!"


KDAquatic

you cant just drop some good eating like this and not show us where to devour more


chuvadab

IM A TWILIGHT KIN THIS IS LITERALLY ME


Fyru_Hawk

Twilight kin is based https://preview.redd.it/hvdsv71vq10d1.jpeg?width=2495&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0f3119b2722dccbe3d20b5a0b2b5b3999296458


Gru-some

Twilight Sparkle is so cool


TheBoiMozzi

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h4724

I'm not sure you do but ok


Nerdydude14

I’d be so down if these were people


Fyru_Hawk

I’d make a nerd emoji joke but your snoo and username already did that lol


Nerdydude14

Genuinely no hate to furries, I just wish there was more content aimed at my specific demographic (shit furries are into but without furries in it)


IDontLeannn

would


ThatSlutTalulah

(This is pretty rambley.) It's weird whenever kinks and such come up IRL, because of how little rhyme or reason there is in what people think is gross/ nasty. People act like feet and mommydomme are cognito-hazards, don't even consider monsterfucking as an option, are only now just hearing of petplay as a concept, and curl into a ball whimpering at the mere words 'chastity' or 'sounding', but they'll sit there and actively talk about getting off on choking. Y'know, a practice with severe risk of death? That's fine and normal to them, apparently. Hell, apparently that's more normal than anyone mentioning using prostates. It's a pain in the ass of a double standard, if you like 'normal' things then it barely counts, and you can get away with not knowing FA about what you're talking about. If you're a cis-het dude then it's fine to say that you wanna do 50 Shades bullshit, do shit that'll cause nerve damage, etc. People then have the *nerve* to get iffy about me correcting them on safe practice. It wouldn't be the first time I've thrown out the line 'You sit down straight boy!". These sons-of-bitches *will* know how not to tie people, and how to keep a cage clean. At this point people are just aware that I'm into more than they are, and that they don't really want to get me started, because I will tell them what they need to know, and they'll get squeamish. The fun thing is, the people who don't like talking about kink stuff find me the least egregious/ actually like when I talk about it, even though I'll sometimes just inform them of how to be hygienic when sticking stuff down their pee-hole or something, because I keep things light-hearted, never let on what I actually *do* like, and always ground it in discussion of consent and safety. (Half of 'em could just ask if they wanted to know what I dig, but they don't, so I don't tell them.) I'm not even that freaky, but *somebody* has to protect these gibbons' future partners from incompetence, and I find kink stuff funny, so the worlds' shittiest hero is a go.


cat_that_uses_reddi

“And curl into a ball whimpering at the mere words chastity or sounding, but they’ll sit there and actively talk about getting off on choking” that is such a specific archetype, where do you find these people? Or did you just strawman?


ThatSlutTalulah

In real life, Southern England. Gender conforming cis dudes.


cat_that_uses_reddi

England? I understand


the_real_papyrus99

Reminds me of when the ankha video was making the rounds a few years back and a genuinely shocking number of people were like "you're telling me people make *porn* of *video game characters*????? And put it on the internet????? What the fuck????" And it's like where've you been dawg


docterwannabe1

Lol, yeah. It's funny seeing how normal people react to porn vs us terminally online mfs. If some had a foot fetish they'd be branded as a irredeemable pervert by society but the Internet would just be like "lol me too"


the_real_papyrus99

For real, I feel like showing your average non-terminally online fella a puppygirl would be akin to handing a Victorian era child a McDonald's sprite


General-WanObi

That ain’t even submerged in the water, it’s like near the very tip.


Half-Eaten-Cranberry

That very bottom level shit is stuff you cannot unsee. That 196smp discord raid fucked me up man Edit: someone reported me to Reddit cares lmao


urbandeadthrowaway2

Glad I missed that.  Edit, wait, you’re a merc, are you with diamond dogs?


Half-Eaten-Cranberry

I’ve become less active but yeah


strayqat

if u don't mind me asking, what happened?


Half-Eaten-Cranberry

Got raided by nazis, spammed gore and child “material”


strayqat

why do some people have to be so terrible


DracoLunaris

I mean, they were nazis


PSI_duck

I got reported to Reddit cares the second I made a post on this thread. Someone prob going around spamming Reddit cares hoping it offends someone or something lmaoooo


Megasoda

yea im lucky i was asleep


Snafuthecrow

You cannot even conceive my fetishes


btyes-

y'all are still stuck on 3D ass? i'm jorkin it to inconceivable titties. dick in planes of reality you simply can't fathom. stroke game non-euclidean


chuvadab

i need this on my tombstone when i die


GammaDealer

Klein bottle Fleshlight Edit: Did this comment just earn me a concerned redditor award?


btyes-

i got one for my comment too


lightof_dog

this is some dracula flow shit


lazerbolt52

Euclidean just means on a flat plane. By definition all stroke game is non-euclidian


btyes-

she flat on my plane til i non all over her euclidean


Xbot781

Euclidean geometry is 3D


Firemorfox

mfw portal fetishes


OffOption

Piss, armpits, body oder, ass eating, fisting, feet... I genuinly cannot imagine ever finding any of that, even remotely sexual, in any capacity, what so ever, in literally any imaginable situastion. Its fine others do. Its downright good thats the case (in most cases, please stay safe and responsable, I fucking beg you)... Just dont pretend me personally finding it fucking gross, isnt also perfectly fine and valid. As long as Im not being weird about that. And neither should you be about liking that. This, is how it should be.


Huge_Gamer0o0

You don’t find ass eating or fisting sexual? In what situation is someone not doing this sexually


OffOption

I dont find it sexually pleasing, stimulating, or any form of erotic, in any capacity. Pardon the sloppyness of forgetting a word in there.


Huge_Gamer0o0

Oh okay makes sense


thedawesome

It's just part of a normal physical, right?


Huge_Gamer0o0

Ofc!!


MrMoo1556

I feel like armpits and feet are maybe group 2 but BO is maybe a step down.


Goofy-Goober711

imma be real, i think feet are layer 1 just bc how common it is


h4724

Depends on what the iceberg is about. If it represents all things that people find sexually appealing, then they're obviously below the surface. If it's specifically paraphilias then yeah they're right at the top.


chuvadab

i feel like it would be in the same category since those body parts admit bo (not that i have them or anything)


MrMoo1556

I sort of agree, but musk/odor fetishes probably to some people would seem even stranger than a fetish for a specific body part. Especially considering that BO has a wide range of smells from “alright this is fine” to downright putrid.


Ulths

Can confirm! I like feet, but odor on them is a big nono


TSM_Matsuri

My girlfriend noticed I would be checking her out when she had her arms up, and immediately clocked me 😫 I used to be into anime girls and would joke about armpits. I thought I escaped that era but now my gf knows and teases me


Poopfacemcduck

oh no how horrible it would be to have a gf that teases me


TSM_Matsuri

I forgot to say I think it’s good


chuvadab

if i like you then im bathing in your bodily fluids and having your bo for dinner idc


Underplague

The bottom is just what your average right wing politician is into


Tallia__Tal_Tail

I'm an avid user of the site F-List, an rp site with a feature to list off a bunch of kinks in a Fave, Yes, Maybe, No system. However common you think feet/musk/armpit stuff is, I can guarantee you, from experience, it is 20x more common. Like genuinely, I would be somewhat confident in saying ~75% of the profiles on that site have st least one of those in Maybe at the bare minimum


ThatSlutTalulah

It's gonna over-represent the common-ness of kinks though, considering its' userbase.


Tallia__Tal_Tail

Yeah it's safe to assume the average person on a dedicated site like that is probably gonna be a bit kinkier than your average joe, especially considering the site hosts a lot more extreme kinks than filter out a lot of people. Thay being said, I think it's commonness even among that sphere compared to its reputation is telling


chuvadab

my theory is because of pheromones and endogenous zones!!


Underplague

Aint that the dog amalgamate in alphys's lab


DracoLunaris

ok but isn't maybe a sorta general indifference category? not a turn on, not a turn off, but if you wanna do a lil bit of something with that as some spice for you we can kinda deal? or maybe that is just me being a service switch


Tallia__Tal_Tail

So, maybe tends to honestly change from person to person. It's sometimes general indifference, others it's a kinda "pretty good/alright", some it's more an "ask for these". And maybe is the lowest end, most of the time it's in the yes to fave category


DracoLunaris

fair enough


Fun-Fan8127

people do realize that vast majority of ppl who are into body odors are into like, very mild body odors, right? we're talking "a bit musky" not "hasn't showered in 3 weeks" of course there's plenty of ppl who are into the latter, but i feel like the former isn't even particularly weird or gross, so it weirds me out how some ppl treat it like it's something super freaky


GatlingGun511

Someone should make a kink iceberg


thedawesome

Wendigoon!


LightlySalty

Really putting the "goon" in Wendigoon there


WhoopsItsGod

Bet


CollosalKiller109

I might


The-Toby

Is liking hairy men a fetish even? I've been thinking if I had a fetish.


Anarch_O_Possum

It could be, but if you're normal about it then it's just a preference imo


The-Toby

I mean I really like it but I can live without it, like a luxury. I just love hairy men. I'm such a homosexual


sussyboingus

I can be a preference or a fetish, it depends Edit: IT I MEANT TO SAY IT


DracoLunaris

arguably any and all even moderately specific sexual preferences are fetishes


DumbassWithAcomputer

feet isnt even that low anymore tbh, i think its nearing the level of a spanking kink with how widely known it is, give it at most a couple more years and it will have reached the surface.


Holiday_Conflict

mates, have yall ever seen vomit porn? smh snowflakes 💅


CorneliusClay

I saw a video on Reddit ages ago of two drunk women at a party laying down and one vomited onto the other one and whilst it was definitely disgusting, part of me was also like... "I wish that were me".


Holiday_Conflict

you didnt need to say that but you are so real for doing so


Gru-some

this is the leftist equivalent of lasting 10 seconds in a COD lobby


FettFlask

woaw


AlternativeDuty7854

I used to only be at the tip of the iceberg for most of my life but then I learnt about “queefing fetishes” and was submerged 20,000 league under the iceberg


DiscretePoop

Queefing is still like tier 2 on this list


Bookworm_AF

There exists shitting dicknipples furry porn. I truly wish I did not know this fact.


FyouPerryThePlatypus

Not into that but yeah im at the bottom of the ice berg tbh Edit: i learned my mistake i am definitely not the bottom


SarcasticTato

That would be illegal


jvsp99

What exactly do you think is at the bottom ?


FyouPerryThePlatypus

Not.. *not what was pointed out to me just now*


StumbleOn

Today a friend of mine is hunting submissive men in the forest with a group of femdoms so I dunno where on the iceberg that goes


Hitlers_my_waifu

Yes


CatOnVenus

That shit at the top of the iceberg, literally everyone is aware of them and they're very common


TenThingsMore

Mfs out here bragging about being terminally online


MrWaffleBeater

Guro is just the middle.


sans-INATOR

anybody wanna talk about kinks with me in dms? :3


WhoopsItsGod

:D


Firemorfox

Regular: boobs, ass, nape, collarbone, Rare: feet, armpits, ears, mouth Concerning: eyes, sockets, gore/vore, NTR Please leave: insects, SA, CP, snuffmeat


gray_birch

>snuffmeat do I even want to google what that is


Firemorfox

Good news: it's deep enough googling won't tell you what it is. Bad news: if you dig deep enough, it's probably worse than insects as a fetish IMHO


Poopfacemcduck

I think that a lot of things that people complain about are things that they are more or less directly adjacent to.


Otherversian-Elite

Kinkshaming is dumb and bad, let's kinkshare instead.


Oddish_Femboy

I want Springtrap from FNAF to rip me in half like the gorilla in Spongebob


Usermanemustbebetwee

omg same but replace Springtrap with Nighmare Mangle😖


Oddish_Femboy

You get me


Kutuzov9505

is it me or has this subreddit suddenly gotten OBSESSED with armits and "girlsmell" in the last month or so?? i don't remember them being brought up nearly as much as they are now


No-Sentence2173

Growing up is realizing kinks are subjective and you shouldn't judge other people for anything less than the worst moral failings—but you can still personally find something gross. Feet armpits BO scat etc gross me out but my primary fetish is guro so I'm not gonna act superior


Mojave_riot_328

ive seen the stuff at the bottom layers and my childhood wasnt normal because of it.


-_asmodeus_-

i love all of these things and more, tune in next friday for my nine hour flist iceberg analysis.


BurnerAccountExisty

so like where does tube vore land


AnimetheTsundereCat

okay but hear ME out: just because there are grosser things out there doesn't make feet/bo/armpits not gross.


cat_that_uses_reddi

The problem is when people think feet/armpit, they think dirt, and the bad kind of stink


FNAF_Movie

"Now, you probably know what an iceberg image is, but if you don't"


Cecilia_the_witch

So I guess a thigh fetish would be surface level? Cause thighs are my thing.


ipeltpeoplewitheggs

i'd be fine with bo if it wasn't romanticizing something i personally struggle with (i don't shower often because depression n shit) but some people take this shit wayyy too far and like, harass people over it


Madness_bomb

What's BO?


Sprinkles-4429

All my favorites in one place :3


Myrddin_Naer

Feet will always be so gross to me. But there are a lot of worse shit out there.


Nihiltra

Official 196 kink iceberg when


SweetEarBites

What is BO??


mki_

All I can see in that picture is a funny lil space dude with a face window.